Well, we have been exchanging emails for like 6 years. I finally travelled to her and saw her for the first time. She told me she is in love with someone and that we are just friends. Now I'm back home but completely torn apart. I can't do nothing about it. I can't help loving her. It is just like if the world ran out of girls and she is the only one there. I wish her luck with the man she loves coz I want her to be happy, but at the same time I wish if she could be with me.
I've been avoiding falling in love coz I ran through bad experiences before. I built several walls around myself but that girl brought all those walls down at the first time we met. Now my life turned into real torture. I don't know what to do.
2006-07-15 01:55:13 · 8 answers · asked by universal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let her go and open up to new experiences. Especially when it comes to other women. C'mon man, it sounds like you really didn't know her that well anyway. You need to enjoy some time with other females that you know like you but you probably ignore. You wouldn't be attractive to any girl with this level of confidence. What you really need is a swift kick. So give yourself one, smile and say "Life goes on". Quit trying to make things happen and do whats best for you. Relationships aren't everything.
2006-07-15 02:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are top egoist. First thing u have taken 6 years and u expect the girl to wait for 6 years. Actually she must have understood u within one year and she must have found one real one for him. She knew that u can not be more than just a pass time.
Grow up. Dont think world will not run without you. If Not you, next one, If not next one, next one and .....
2006-07-15 09:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you.... But in time your wounds will heal. There are plenty of girls out there waiting for a man that they can call their own you know. But patience is the virtue. And again I am so sorry for you. I wish you the best of luck in the future....
2006-07-15 09:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As she is in love with other boy and she is not willing to b with u, it is better to forget her. To do that think all bad things in her(if possoible). Then try to clone all the qualities u found in her to another one. Pray to GOD.
Best of Luck.
2006-07-15 09:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by kk_epy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing don't get so involved with someone without knowing more about them and their feelings. Be a man and get over it and open yourself up to new prospects
2006-07-15 08:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch. I can't really say. I don't fall in love. I'm completely heartless and a jerk and everyone hates me.
but good luck anyways.
2006-07-15 08:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, ya big baby!!
2006-07-15 08:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control yourself.
2006-07-15 08:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by anczol1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋