Do you find that you don't talk on the same level after you have sex with that person?
2006-07-15 01:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by child_of_the_lion 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sex is a gift from God for marriage. When you have sex outside of marriage it loses its 'specialness.'
2006-07-15 01:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by ld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is the sharing of ideas, emotions and giving comfort if needed. Sex is the sharing of your body. Once you cross that line you are no longer just friends but also lovers. Even though you feel that makes you special with that friend you loose objectivity.
Once sex enters your friendship there is no going back. And often can destroy a friendship.
2006-07-15 01:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most people friendship is just for name sake but what they look for is sexual gratifications...if friendship is valued and respected i don't see why sex should and would come in the name.They take the first step as friendship but later they turn up into bed perhaps saying that you slept with your friend makes it easier to accept and the level of shyness or embarrassment is not at the peak for some people....
as for not talking on the same level after sex depends on who it is really because there are people who later regret or feel ashamed or even embarassed...
2006-07-15 01:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex invokes feelings of love, lust or whatever. It complicates the friendship and makes it weird because at least one of you is going to be left wanting more than just a friends with benefits type of relationship.
2006-07-15 01:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cross a line of intamacy that you can't cross back over. You can't un-shag. That's the reason in a nutshell.
2006-07-15 01:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is why you should not do it, until you get married. when you love someone special sex is different. it means something special
2006-07-15 01:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't trust that person enough?
2006-07-15 01:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its upto u ... its all in ur mind and its ur perception that it comes in between...may be ur GUILT factor...
2006-07-15 01:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by rmbhimani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of my big comfy bed.
and no, lol that's why I don't sleep around w/ friends.
2006-07-15 01:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all depends on ones intention.
2006-07-15 01:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋