2006-07-14 23:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by sankar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really don't know what kind of help you want. But words are just words. You put away the bad and only receive the good words. If you do not listen to bad words they can have no affect on you. Because your soft in nature it should not an unreachable task. I wish I knew what words you need Because I have plenty. Best wishes.
2006-07-15 00:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are passive aggressive (like me). It's not abnormal, it just means you really try to be nice but at some point someone breaks that last straw and you loose control of your emotions.
I handle such situations by trying to pay attention to when I'm about to loose my temper. If I feel an outburst coming on I quickly end the conversation and leave the room. Taking a few deep breaths and saying in your mind "This idiot isn't worth my time or anger" also helps when you are unable to just leave the room.
2006-07-15 00:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess arguing is something that you never liked growing up so when you get in a confrontation you want to end it quick so you get violent. maybe you should try the silent treatment and then go somewhere where you can have some me time to relieve the stress and think about what is going on, some people prefer a quiet room while others want to break stuff i go rock climbing cause its a way to get away from things and use that built up adrenaline for climbing rather than destroying something you wish that you hadn't later, but there are many ways just try to find something that is you.
2006-07-15 00:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by twistedlifesmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite natural for the people who are soft in nature that if they are cornered to suffocation, they burst, its quite understandable. If you can and if it is in your reach you can ask for an excuse and walk off from the scene so that you don't end up having a bad relationship!
2006-07-15 00:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by AreAce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is but natural for u to do so but keep a check and count 10 it alays help and concentrate on the positive side of life
2006-07-14 23:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry but do not understand the question very well. Almost sounds like someone is abusing you. Do not take abuse from anyone. Talk to someone you can trust.
2006-07-15 00:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls post again as your Q is not clear
2006-07-15 01:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your statement is not a question. Rephrase, rewrite, and use the grammar check on your computer please.
2006-07-14 23:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by shire_maid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋