what an average american mother or father feels when they come to know that their little one has lost her virginity and suddenly became a big girl ? do still they try to find innocence in her eyes? do they visualise that their li'l doll slept with some hooligan or roadside boy? is it what americans call liberty?
2006-07-14 22:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by mr.serious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well- I can only say that you feel like you want to run out, grab the boy by his throat and shake him. bad thing is, you have to let your child grow up and make her own decisions, trusting that the way you raised her is the way she will behave and act outside. No matter what you want for your children, its not uo to you- its up to them. All you can do is stand by and offer your assistance and comfort if things dont work out or if they turn out great.
If your daughter loses her virginity, feel thankful she told you, that shows she trusts your opinion and is asking for your help. Talk to her, sit her down and have a conversation about what she got herself into and set her up for birth control (i suggest Norplant- no babies for 5 years). Just dont ostracize her and make her feel like trashe becase then she will begin to rebel and do it alot and unprotected... or protected, just with tons of people...
2006-07-15 02:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't think that that a girls first date is when they lose the virginity, or plan to,
I deffinately, don' t think that their "LITTLE GIRL" is going out that first tiime to lose their virginity,
I hope you do not plan to take out any girl and decide to be the one to take her virginity,,
why do you ask this question, what nationality are you?
I Kinda feel , or sense some sarcasm in your wording, if not ia am sorry if i am mistaken,
You mentioned "AMERICAN" twice in your question, what is the signifigance in that? AND last but not least, every father and mother share a unique special and powerful regard for their daughter, (and son) and hope and pray that the children they raise will not experience anything but the best of times and care, and how do you know that the "li'l doll will end up with a hooligan or roadside boy? Are you planning to become one?
2006-07-15 05:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When my daughter told me that she wasn't a virgin anymore at the age of 15, I have to admit that I regretted the day I told her that she could tell me anything. Some things as mothers we don't want to hear, and that is one of them. It did not change my love for her nor did it change her being able to come to me with any problem that she had, for it did make us closer to know that she could come to me with her questions and I would answer them as best as I could. She is now the mother of my oldest granddaughter and my only grandson and will be 24 this year. She still asks my opinion on things and respects the ones that I give her whether she takes my advice or not.
2006-07-15 05:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirlfromtenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just start dreming her own first date.
2006-07-15 05:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of the mothers are like that, and some are not..
2006-07-15 06:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it... if you have instilled values in your child.. to know right from wrong.
2006-07-15 05:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by karl12982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my daughter...unconditionally...she will always be my "little baby girl" ..
2006-07-15 05:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feelings of her mother when she was sent for her first data..........
2006-07-15 05:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by crazygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋