My ex boyfriend is everything i could have asked for, we broke up not even a month ago and the day we broke up, he madeout with some chick, about 20 minutes after the fact.
That doesn't bug me so badly, but then this girl kept calling me telling me was going out with him while we were going out.
(It could have been a lie, girls are just drama whores)
The thing is, I still love him. As much as that sounds stupid, I do. I'd do almost anything to get him back.
HELP?
2006-07-14 22:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by live | laugh | love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is blind it's sad but true sorry
2006-07-14 22:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Friend, better for you just to let it go. I`m sorry ya, but seems like he`s not a kind of Man who have respect in a relationship. Sometimes our mind being blinded by emotion, that`s way even you knew deep in side your heart that he is not good for you. How come, both of you just broke up 20 minnutes then he went out with other girl without concerning a bout your feeling, so childish.
Just thinking over and clearly, dont let your leves being draggin` by your emotion, you know that infact even both of you getting along together again, you`ll not happy, coz from the beginning he just look down upon on the commitmen and relationship
2006-07-14 22:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask yourself, why did you guys break up? Because, if he's everything that you could ask for, then of course you'd love him. It might have to do with how long you guys have been together. You could ask him if he was going out with another girl while you guys were going out, or why he was making out with another girl 20 minutes after. It's a possibility that the girl he was making out with was the other girl.
There's a lot of things you don't know, like why he did all those things, why the girl kept calling telling you that she was going out with him, etc. The best thing to do is ask him why.
2006-07-14 22:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take some time to get over your break-up, but you should not take the calls from the girl. She is only doing this to get a reaction from you. For him to make out with a girl 20 minutes after your break-up shows that he is a jerk. You should avoid him and try to go out and meet someone new. I hope you find someone that will treat you with respect. Even though you still love him, try to avoid him because you will just be hurt worse if you see him with someone else. Give it some time. I promise it will get better.
2006-07-14 22:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by ohst87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would do almost anything and feel even more like a fool. The smartest thing you can do is tell him and this new girl to go do impure things to themselves with a basket of rotting fruit and a jar of kosher pickles and move on! You don't need this **** in your life and you don't have to take it if you don't want to. Being alone is better than being with an ******* who doesn't give a damn about you or how you feel. When you realize that you'll feel a hell of a lot better.
2006-07-14 22:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because as women we have this insane need to want that what is not good for us and that what we cannot have ... like bad boys. We also have this insane way of thinking that we are "the one" that can change him. Until we become mature and realize that there are too many other good guys out there. The true test of a man's character is his ability to resist temptation for the sake of commitment. Me? I deserve a MAN with character. You girls can have the "boys". They are too much work (been there, done that). Besides, why should I train one for another gloria-good-body to benefit from? Give me one already trained!
2006-07-14 22:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love the bad boys!
Guys, if this doesn't open your eyes, nothing will. Nice guys don't get laid!
Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be an assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
Get to Leykis 101. It works.
2006-07-14 22:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you insist you still want him after all that he did. Then do everything you can do to have him, be the g/f he wants, fullfilled his desire and needs, accepts that he's gonna cheat you now and then. Besides you loves him and would do anything for him. But be ready that you are the only one who's gonna be miserable in silence and it is not his faults. You want him, you got him.
However if you feel that's sound stupid, well it is, forget him and find that guy who really loves you back.
You the only one who can help youself.
2006-07-14 22:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by NikeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO WE GIRLS LOVE THOSE BAD BOYS? FOR THE SAME REASON TAHT NICE GUYS FINISH LAST...CAUSE BAD BOYS NEED TO BE "FIXED." AND WE THINK THAT WITH ENOUGH LOVE, SEX, ATTENTION, AFFECTION, THAT WE CAN CHANGE HIM, BRING HIM AROUND AND INTO HIS OWN. REALITY CHECK...WE CAN'T THE ONLY THING/PERSON WE CAN CHANGE OR HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER IS OURSELVES...TRYING TO PLAY PUPPETMASTER TO ANOTHER PERSON AND GET THEM TO PERFORM AS WE WOULD LIKE THEM TO IS LIKE TRYING TO MAKE THE SUN RISE IN THE WEST AND SET IN THE EAST. GO ON AND LOVE HIM...EVERYTHING IN TIME PASSES...JUST DON'T LET THAT LOVE DESTROY WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN...YOURSELF.
2006-07-14 23:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by cowboysminxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still like him simply because he was with another girl while he was dating you... It's competition between 2 women. It's matter of showing who is the best. i bet that if you guys get back together you will realize that you don't "love him" anymore...
2006-07-14 22:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by juandeldiabblo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only guy in the world for you. You are still alive. Move on and forget about scum.
2006-07-14 22:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋