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Let your nice personality show. Don't focus too much on looks. Focus more on hygiene, wear clothes that fit you, don't wear tight clothes, wear matching nice looking clothes, take care of your skin and hair,... Even better try losing the weight it's not that hard believe me.

Good Luck!

2006-07-14 22:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0 0

It's when you give up on men and stop looking for a man to feel complete when the right one comes along. I know from experience. I'm quite chubby and found the man of my dreams when I was desperate for a job and decided to work for a company I wasn't too impressed with. I'm now happily married and still chubby but now with an excuse since I had a baby 18 months ago. I never thought I would find my husband and father of my children at a cheesy job.

2006-07-15 05:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0 0

Honey, if he is the man for you, you thinking that you're "chubby" will mean absolutely nothing.

Real men ..... 1) Like curves. Sleeping with a skeleton has never been my idea of fun.

2) Realize that it's what is on the inside that counts, NOT the bag of flesh everyone sees.

3) Will chase down good hearted women to the ends of the Earth.

So, in conclusion, if you feel uncomfortable about your weight, do something if you want to.

Be open and honest to him.

Try being his friend first, work into being lovers.

Do NOT become a friend with priviledges, it demeans you.

2006-07-15 05:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mortis 3 · 0 0

Making someone fall in love with you doesnt work they have to because its what they feel. If you feel chubby tighten up your stomach walking jogging swimming or watch what you eat. Get to know this person people who look at the out side and dont take time to see the inner beauty are superficial. i say there is a special guy out there who will see you for you.Good luck

2006-07-15 05:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0 0

You can't MAKE a man fall in love with you. It doesn't matter if you are toothpick thin or as wide as a barn. Just be yourself. Men are hard to figure out, but they do not like to be chased, so don't do that. A casual approach is best.

2006-07-15 05:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by ohst87 2 · 0 0

Do you mean lust after, or love you?

Love comes with getting to know someone over a period of time, and developing a deep bond with that person.

Lust is the initial animal magnetism that may fade the next morning.

Just be your sweet self, stay open and show yourself to be self-confident, and the right man will sweep you off of your feet.

2006-07-15 05:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by MenifeeManiac 7 · 0 0

just be yourself... enhance the strongest points you have, like if you have a nice face already... then you can put make-up that makes your face more beautiful and at the same time looking natural... only put little, maybe curl your lashes and a nice lipstick... you don't have to do anything to attract the right guy for you... attraction happens when you least expect it... most essential thing is to cultivate your inner self because if you have a beautiful soul, it will radiate... everyone can notice such an aura..

2006-07-15 05:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by jen 1 · 0 0

you can never force someone into loving you no matter what you look like......so what if you are chubby....that can change....any GOOD person will love YOU no matter what......and even help support a healthy, sound....SANE diet and exersize plan with a personal trainer or councelor....Get a t-shirt that says "I am fat but you are Ugly so shut up".....Take care of yourself first and do not worry about what OTHER people think while you do that.

2006-07-15 06:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by OR 6 · 0 0

Hon, looks aren't everything. A guy shouldn't fall in love with you because you're a 6 foot tall blonde with a to die for body. That's superficial, guys should fall in love with you FOR you.

2006-07-15 05:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by live | laugh | love 1 · 0 0

u shouldnt need to make a guy fall in love with u he should do it without even be asked, but just be yourself if he doesnt like that then he doesnt respect or love you

2006-07-15 05:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by ozcall2006 2 · 0 0

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