2006-07-14 22:20:06 · 9 answers · asked by Lostmydammind 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's much like dealing with death.
The relationship is ending. You must pay respects to the good and bad part of the relationships. Try to teach yourself what YOU really want and how to avoid what went wrong. DON'T beat yourself up ... this is only a step to lean more about life and yourself. Remember, you cannot change his actions, you can only change the way you will carry yourself from here on out.
Also, it is important to look to the future with hope and anticipation. Remember, an ending is really just the begging
2006-07-18 11:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL LIFE IS WAY TO SHORT TO BE SAD OR UNHAPPY!!! THAT OTHER PERSON SHOULD BE BEHIND YOU 110% IF NOT LOOK FORWARD AND DO NT EVER LOOK BACK!!!Things happen for A REASON two people that truly love each other is the only thing that should matter !! if that's not there ??IF the good lords willing and the creek dint rise you will find that other half of that DREAM!!!IF YOU FEEL THE WAY YOU DO JUST THINK ABOUT #1 YOU THE REST FALLS INTO PLACE...
2006-07-15 05:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joe M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- I ll be honest with you- as I have been in this situation...
Unless and until you find somebody ELSE- whom you love more and is more special...its very very difficult to get over!
Conversely- you ll find that someone ONLY when you are OVER THIS ONE!!
So- its a chicken and egg situation...
If possible- distance yourself- physically as well as emotionally from the SIGHTS, SOUNDS, Smells and anything that reminds you of the person...
Engage yourself in new activities that you have been wanting to do since a LONG time...can be taking guitar lessons or learning to oil paint or just updating your blog!
Time is the biggest healer...but the thing is that time passes too slowly WHEN you are in a MESS!!!
Don't worry- I ll give you a good quote which ll stand by you in difficult times:
" This too shall pass."!
Cheers and I hope things get better for you real soon!
2006-07-15 05:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was "the best thing for both of you", and BOTH of you are mature enough to handle it, you would still be together. If not, let it go. For the he or she will need the space to eventually realize that yeah, this is "the best thing" and love will come back to you. The hardest test to find true love is the ability to let it go.
2006-07-15 05:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't waste psychological energy feeling down-trodden."
I read that in a history of photography book. It was a quote from one of the artists and it lifted me out of my depression when I was going through a mutual break-up. I was emotionally spent and I made a conscious decision not to let it affect me. Find your passion and immerse yourself in it. Pamper yourself. And working out helps release seratonin too so you'll feel better about yourself.
God bless!
2006-07-15 05:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jonelle C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy to keep your mind off of him. Go party with your friends or join a church groups singles club.
2006-07-15 05:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from food, you just get fatter. Travelling is always good but with a bunch of single friends!
2006-07-15 05:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Zal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let the time solve the saddness. i am sure that you had once one beloved died and think why you do not remember him anymore. time is the best solvant of saddness.
2006-07-15 05:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet people.. like clubs or random things you two didnt' do together.
2006-07-15 05:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by karl12982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋