Why can’t some people accept the fact that I have such CLOSE & FANTASTIC relationship with my sister… and NO INCEST HERE?!?
I’ve stated it once and I’ll state it again: NO INCEST HERE!!
Look, what’s the matter actually if I have such CLOSE & FANTASTIC relationship with MY own beloved little SISTER...? Am I wrong here?
I live together with my own beloved little sister in our small flat... just two of us since our parent has passed away long time ago. We have no more closed blood relative left. Anyway, I'm currently 20 and she's 19 and we're both studying in the same college. I'm majoring in physics while she's on literature. We also earn more money by singing in the wedding and café.
2006-07-14 21:47:20 · 14 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We both are so totally open and genuine each other. We love to share about anything, even about our personal problem in college and our love and sex live. Sometimes, if I don't hang out with my girlfriend and neither does she with her boyfriend, we're used to killing some time together... going to the movie, strolling in the park, cooking our dinner together, kinda of brother and sister's stuffs....
We never have a fight. Even if we DO fight, it'll only last for hours... we'll chill out on the next day. Also, I'm so happy that my sister befriends well with my girlfriend. I'm going to propose her soon and I love seeing the two most important women in my life can get along altogether!
2006-07-14 21:47:57 · update #1
However, some people talk about nasty stuffs behind us. I don't know why they're bad-mouthing us... talking about incest and that kind of stuffs... Have I done something wrong here? What should I do then? Okay, I admit that we're so closed... even closer than any ordinary brother and sister... but I still don’t see anything wrong or kind of "forbidden love" here....
Last but not least, incest is only incest if I had sex with my own beloved little sister… which I NEVER did! PERIOD!! I pity them all (including THOSE in YAHOO-ANSWERS!!) who have condemned me and my sister doing incest…. They surely never have such close and fantastic relationship with their very own blood-relative… especially their very own sibling! Poor them all…. Am I wrong here or not?!
2006-07-14 21:48:32 · update #2
I am glad to hear that there are siblings that can be that close. I praise the two of you for the bonding you have. There is Absolutley NOTHING WRONG with you and your sister being close. It is also great that your sis and soon to be fiance are good friends. That just means that as the two of you build your own lives you will never shut the other out. Remember that United you stand and Divivded you fall. Please donot let shallow ,small minded people put the two of you down. Most of them are just jealous that they do not have anything close to that kind of a relationship with their own siblings.
I wish I had 1/10 of the closeness youtwo have with my two brothers. It will never happen. I also wish that my own children would have even half of the closeness you have. Our society has gotten sick minded to the point that they cannot se a very good thing when it is in their face. Rely on God for He knows all truth, right along with you two, and live for the Lord and each other. I pray for you to quit worrying over these shallow people and what they say.
You might have to consider sueing them for slander to shut them up. It may be alot but some people do not know when to stop. A good old gag order from a judge or face jail would shut them up. May God Bless you both and your future spouses.
2006-07-14 22:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, slow down there, buddy. You sound a little heated. Calm down. There's nothing wrong with being close to your sister. In society nowadays, brothers and sisters basically tend to give each other the silent treatment or fight like cats and dogs. It's nice to see a pair of siblings that get along well for a change. My brother and I are quite close as well; we don't really hang out but I don't mind having him around and we'll listen to each other and respect each other's wishes within reason. If anyone suggests something that isn't there, just act totally unaffected. Blow it off. Laugh in their face. After all, it's not true; why should you care? If you give a strong reaction as to the contrary, you may achieve the opposite of your desired effect. Look at them as though they're totally perverted and why would any sane person even think that? This will probably get most people off your back.
2006-07-14 21:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by InfiniteAri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK dude ...dog dont listen to every thing you here. fuc*k every one who talks smack about you guys.the reason you feel like that is because yo uboth have been throught a lot of problems in life or a big problem in life and you dont want to loose each other shes the closest thing you have to a mother and your the closet thing you have from a father thats how i see it. ive had a rough life. my dad had a heart attack and cancer my uncle is living off of a 21 year old kidnee and my other uncle past away from a heart attack, my mom has scoliosis and i live in a small *** house with like 10 people and all these problems i have just makes me closer to all of my family members witch may not be so good in the long run and i guaranty you that all the things you guys have been through or will go throught will bring you even closer witch might also not be the best thing as you get older and start making different desicions and start going your seperate ways.................... well what do i know im only 16 :)
2006-07-18 22:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop using beloved so much...lol and fantastic. Nothing is wrong with a close relationship between brother and sister, some may think your a little too close because maybe you don't argue with your sister in public, and maybe your a little too sweet to your sister sometimes. Just chill with the closeness and all will be well.
2006-07-18 17:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you reiterating "No Incest" coz a lot of people misterpret your love and concern for your sister. It's not good to hear other people saying that you are committing incest to your sister or whatsoever. I know how you feel, but who cares? As long as your doing the right thing. Don't mind them. You are correct, people who misunderstood you never had a close contact with their families and siblings. They are pathetic, narrow-minded people. I appreciate you for that coz there are only few people left in this world like you who has a great love to his sister. You're doing a good thing so there's nothing to worry of.
2006-07-14 23:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by *Jumeirah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. I have a very close relationship with my brother and sister. If we only had eachother as family I'm sure we'd be as close as you and your sister are. So...who gives a damn about what people might be saying? There's no need to keep saying there's 'NO INCEST HERE!!' if it's really not the case. Live your life, and damn the people who try to stir up some drama.
I hope that answers your question...
Did you even ask a question?
2006-07-14 22:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your, "parent passed away long time ago." it shows how much family really means to you that you and your sister stay so close and are able to rely on each other.
Yes, there will be those who judge wrongfully.
Just remember you know and she knows how much you mean to each other. Don't stress over those who want to destroy what you have because they don't have such a close family bond.
2006-07-19 13:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't think that you can be close to your sister with out something funky going on. That's there problem.......i am very close to my little sister she's my best friend in this world so I do under stand. My parents had 5 kids and when the divorced i only had my little sister to talk to and play with and as we got older we grew closer...I applaud you and your sister for sticking together there is nothing more important in this world than family......I wish you both the best....
2006-07-14 22:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wonderful. There is nothing wrong with your relationship. Seems to me you are honest about it being a pure relationship..don't worry what others think. The 2 most important women in your life..their opinions are the only ones that matter. I say congrats to you!
2006-07-17 08:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by all8418 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as from your long statements, we will guess onething.....you both live in a separate world......yes you are correct......but at the same time this world will not accept such things what it would not seen before.....even if it is good......so my idea is just change your residence and be close with yourselves.......all the best
2006-07-14 21:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by sri_pondy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋