i am 24 and my husband is 29.we r together for 1.5 yrs .should we wait for some more time or we should go for a child
2006-07-14 21:23:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you have any doubts at all, wait. You can always change your mind later and have a baby. If you have a baby and change your mind you are stuck and the kid suffers.
2006-07-14 21:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well keep in mind that this is my opinion i know that some may not agree with me but oh well *smile*
Hi there, my suggestion is being that you two are married why don't you just make love and see what happens. When the time is right you two will be blessed with children. Sometimes I hear couples try and try for years to have children. I wonder is it because of them wanting children so badly that stress and all that jazz keeps them from having it..I don't know, but when the time is right it will happen for you. just make love and enjoy and it will happen when you least expect it....well OK i am rambling now sorry good luck to you both *smile*
2006-07-14 21:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Smile_itsanewday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complete the enjoyment of newly married couple life as early as possible. you should not wait beyond 2 yrs to get for a child.
2006-07-14 21:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by paichrer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are not dolls or robots, you are giving birth to a soul and you will live withj a soul, soul is not a joke, bcoz you treat it like a joke then plz stay motherless for whole life rather than comitting sin, have child when you crave for your child, if you crave you will do best things like no drinking, no eating pork as pork will affect its brain and cause diseases and behave like a pig as what we eat we think in that way, you will protect your child from all abuses physical sexual mental, and you will love your child and not spoil it. god bless you and your future child!
2006-07-14 21:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by isha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel that you are ready. financially, emotionally and if you both really want it. That means that its not enough that only he or only you want child. That has to be decision that you will bring together, like most of others, right?
2006-07-14 21:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.Have you travelled enough in your life?I had mine at 21 and 22.I am 33 now.Im glad I had my children young.In september they will both be in high school.I will be getting my life back.I wouldnt want to be an old parent.
2006-07-14 21:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS A PERSONAL QUESTION.
Are you ready for a child?
It is something that you will ALWAYS be responsible for.
Children are not a toy.
THEY ARE YOUR REASON FOR BEING, once you have one.
One thing to remember.... is that the time is NEVER right WHAT?????????? YOU think you were planned???
LOL
2006-07-14 21:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Comfortably Numb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE YET?BECAUSE HAVING A CHILD WILL DRAMAMTICALLY SLOW YOU DOWN ON GETTING WHERE YOU WANT TO BE,GOIAL WISE.IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOOD?CAUSE HAVINGA CHILD INTO A BAD ONE ISNT FAIR,AND IT WOPULDNT FIX A BAD RELATIONSHIP.BUT IF ALL OF YOUR ANSWERS ARE GOOD ONES,THEN YES,I WOULD SAY IF YOU BOTH THINK YOU ARE READY THEN GO FOR IT!
2006-07-14 23:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by cyndi b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really easy, of course you should not have children
When you are ready to have children, you will, because you want to. Making this about age is arbitrary, just keep doing what you are doing and it will happen.
2006-07-14 21:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by holdon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of started making that child a looooooooong time ago
if it took you that long to get randy then lose the zero and get with the hero ;) ;)
2006-07-14 21:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by tmdkshaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋