when i meet a girl that i like and she likes me, we go out with each other for a couple of weeks or so, then i get the... your a really nice guy BUT.... next thing i'm single again, where am i going wrong, when we go out i'm just being myself kind, honest and chatty, whats wrong with me? (and no they are not just after my money),
2006-07-14 21:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just havent met the right girl yet, you will eventualy, we all need to experience some rubbish dates,so as weknow the real thing when it arrives. so dont worry about it, time will sendu someone lovely.
2006-07-14 21:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by kez 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that being to nice is not good? I use to be the nice guy. Then I found you have to be between nice and jerk, somewhere in the middle.
1. Don't be to kind. Women are not use to it these days. Open a door, but don't hold it open. When you go somewhere public don't crowed her, give her room to breath.
2. Don't be to honest. It is okay not to answer every question.
3. Don't talk to much, women want a man with some mystery. Let them ask questions, and try to keep the answers short so they have to ask more.
Also if a woman wants to break up with you, act like you don't care. Say something like "really and I thought I was the only one thinking that". I found that sometimes a woman will wander if she is wrong and give it another try. Usually that day leads to sex, even if she breaks up, she might give you break up sex.
2006-07-14 21:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Artistic Prof. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot figure this one out either. There is an old C/W song that goes the ways of the world and wants of a woman, if I figure them out it will take many years. You might explain to the person who just dumped you that this always happens, and ask them why. Hopefully you will get some honest answers and you might learn something.
Good luck
2006-07-14 21:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by auhunter04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've answered your own question. Nice guys don't get laid.
Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be an assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
Get thee to Leykis 101. The Professor will set you straight about women.
2006-07-14 21:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the way you are George. There is someone out there for you. It is sad, but many women go for the bad-boy types. I guess because they are a challenge. Make yourself a little more challenging in your relationships. Hope all goes well for you.
2006-07-14 21:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing dont feel down,you seem nice.Just have a laugh taking them out and being social,look at it as fun and banter dont read too much into it,she will come along,good luck.
2006-07-14 21:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the chatty factor might be the problem - Well if U can't avoid it then avoid the negative chats...
Try to add humour to your words and ...........
Check for bad breath ;-)
2006-07-14 21:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by killersid_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're shy and don't give the 'queenies' you go after enough attention....??? Stop going after sluts (akak goldiggers) and search out a real girl.
2006-07-14 21:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy 4king schizoid.............why don't u get lost and get a life. Try buying a doll and leave the women to us.
2006-07-14 21:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by adriano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too needy. Don't call them so much..women like a guy that seems like they don't need them
2006-07-14 21:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋