ive been hanging around a group of lesbians and i enjoy their company but lately i have had an attraction to o

Question

of the girls i have tried different things with them but not anything sexual kissing and touching only am i lesbian or perhaps bi i still like men so dam confused

Answer 1

The Bi part is new and interesting, let it pass
The GUY part is normal

Answer 2

Hello there,
you enjoy the lesbians company , but you are hanging around them because you are bi curious, obviously,,
If men do not turn you on,,, then maybe the girls will, and if they only turn you on
then you are "probably" a lesbian,, and then you can relax and know who you are and have a good life,

If they turn you on, and you still want men,, then you are bi, and then ask yourself "WHY" so you can be ok about it,

I think women are great, and i relate better with women, and i have had a few experiences with women sexually,, and enjoy it,
Yet, i did not enjoy it more than with any man, ? IT WAS NOT BETTER,than an man, it was in addition to, and special,

Well, i knew that i did not want to be seen with a girl holding hands, or in public, or hanging around gay bar, and the marriage, the whole scene seemed silly, and i can't see myself growing old, and in "LOVE" with a female
it just feels, and sounds uncomfortable, Men even though they can be such jerks, selfish, and sometimes stupid, compared to women who i think are the stronger, and more intelligent sex, well anyway, i want a man,,and could only say that was what most of us were designed to do, be with the opposite sex is the only choice i would make. I do admire those who if they become, lesbian, are doing this not because they "hate men" BUT BECAUSE THEY CAN'T LOVE A MAN, OR FEEL ANYTHING FOR A MAN, ROMANTICALLY, AS THEY DO FOR A WOMAN,, AND THEN GOD BLESS THEM GO FOR IT, AND LIVE LIFE HAPPILY
GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

It's VERY common to experiment.
You could be bisexual but due to the fact, that you don't know, indicates that you aren't.

Even I experimented once. I loved it!
But I know I am not bisexual or gay AT ALL.

I just enjoyed the naughtiness of it. It was new and different.

Most people DO delve into a same sex experience atleast ONCE in their life.

Statistics have proven this. You just don't hear people going around and admitting it, for fear they will be labeled BI or Gay.

Don't worry. It sounds like you're straight to me.

Been there...And had the same worries for awhile.

Come to find out soon after, that I am 100% straight.

I fall in love with men, not women.

If you have a crush on a female, that's different. If it LASTS, you could be a little bisexual.

Some say you either ARE or your NOT. That you can't be just a little bisexual.

They are wrong. Welcome to the club of literally MILLIONS of women who have experimented with it.

We are just simply curious creatures!

You're fine. Don't worry.

Answer 4

Being a lesbian or being bisexual is not an easy thing. However,
you are what you are. There is no credible evidence of people
being able to change which genders they are attracted to.

However, you do get to chose what you do about it.

If you had any choice about what to feel, I would recommend
remaining heterosexual, simply because it is easier. People
rarely get beaten up for being hetersexual.

However, you don't get to chose what you feel and I don't feel
that either lesbian or bisexual behavior is inherently bad. However,
all sexual relationships are risky (even hetersexual ones). Be careful,
kind and thoughtful.

I have friends to this day think that they have to be either hetersexual
or homosexual, but they haven't decided after better than 20 years.
Its always entertaining to see whom they will bring to parties.

At least they go to parties and seem to be having fun.

Answer 5

My roommate once told me that there is no such thing as Bi, only greedy people.
That aside, it's not wrong to be attracted to same sex. After all, humans are hungry for love. Are you only lost in the situation? Or that your subconsious barrier broke through and you've realize that you've been always been attracted to girls.

But only you can truly answer your question. Think about it.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

What you are doing is not normal "being lesbian". Is ok and healthy to like men. They will make you feel like a girl/woman. Believe me, you will like that feel, is better than with those girls. Don't get confuse. Only love between a man and a woman can see flowers and fruit.

Answer 8

You could be bi, but most likely you are just comfortable with these girls. Have you ever had feelings for a female? If this is a first, it probably doesn't mean anything.

Answer 9

I think boundaries to sexuality are socially made. If given a chance, under safe conditions, i believe people of all sexes could enjoy and possess attraction for any other sex. Go ahead and try it-it is your life and the only one you have! Use it well! But, be safe!

Answer 10

You are confused and curious since their lesbian lifestyle is growing on you. Sit down with the most serious of them and talk to them about it. They might just tell you it's a passing fancy and to not act on it, depending on how you're feeling and the signals you are giving off.

Answer 11

Honey, if you dont try these things, you will never know. If you enjoy something, stick with it. Doesnt matter whether you are gay straight. bi whatever, you dont have to categorize everything like that, you are just enjoying yourself, regardless, so dont beat yourself up over it, doll. Just ride with it and relax! x