I'm confused?

Question

Well basically i am lonly n, being single can be fun n everything but, there is that 1 person that u just need to be there for u, n u have a shoulder to lean on. But then again, i don't want to deal with a break up;a broken heart, u know.

Answer 1

Have fun and dont think of it as a relationship. That way you dont get attached and its no biggy.

Answer 2

Welcome to the human condition.

Usually, successful relationships in relatively mature people come about
when the partners figure out just how close to be to one-another. Too close
can be suffocating, too far can lead the other person to be unsure of
your love, etc.

Generally, "a shoulder to lean on" does not have to be connected to
a lover. Its nice when it is - but frequently, the lover is the cause of the
requirement to lean. Good friends can be as good or better for this.

Broken hearts, generally heal - not always. Good friends are willing
to hang around and wait with you.

Answer 3

Well I am not sure what to tell you, dealing with a relationship there are no garinuntees. When you meet someone there is always that chance that things won't work out. However, there is just as good a chance that things will work out for the best. The problem is that you will never know if you don't try. Look at it like you are playing the lottery you don't win unless you play

Answer 4

I do agree with you but all those are just ups and down's of life, there are like spices of life, don't be afraid of the heart ache of breaking up as you will never find out the true love.

You can never know what is awaiting for you if you don't try to find that person. It is not hat true tall of them out there are monstrous, there are plenty of decent folks too.

It will be a pity if you give up at this early stage, I do believe always that you won't know how sweet sugar is if you haven't tested salt or chilli.

freedom of walking freely means nothing to us walking daily on the streets comparing to the one's who are deprieved of that being for own or out of their hand reasons, eg being in jail, sick on bed etc etc

Answer 5

I'm confused now too. What's your question?

I reccommend okcupid.com, a dating site. It worked for me.

And basically, complete 100 percent honesty with that person you date. And live everyday as your last day on earth. Be romantic, go all out. You only have one life and not everyone is guaranteed 89 years of life here. :)

P.S. 100 percent honesty includes omitting telling someone something. That's still a lie.

Answer 6

I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. You see, i'm not a loser like you and I have a girlfriend. Get a life, get off you lazy butt and start meeting people.

Enough of the self pity.

If you're a guy jump off a building and land nuts first. That way you won't be able to procreate.

If you're a women, jump off a building and land vagina first that way you won't be able to procreate.

Society doesn't like people like you. you are seen as trolls. move to the north pole and go find santa. maybe he'll give you a job.

Answer 7

Nothing good comes without risks so something in order to make things better you have to take a chance. Good luck to you and there is someone out there right for you and be open to meeting that person.

Answer 8

That is part of life you never know what you are going to get like Forest Gump one said. You should live life to the fullest because you only got one life to live like the soap opera says.

Answer 9

In life there are Pros and Cons to everything. You just have to pick which you can best live with or else you miss out on you opportunities.

Answer 10

well no one wants to have a broken heart, but being with someone special is just awesome