Hi my husband is older than me and i want to know somethings that can really make the bedroom hot and spicey stupid cosmo gives the the same old same old! I really want to do somthing hot this weekened for him since he is off work any ideas how i could set the mood! he isnt into talking during it and i'm and i love to roleplay and stuff but he never seems to be to into it he is more of a lets have sex and get it over with type of guy, so How can i be more suductive and sexy and make him want to do all the things that would make a realtionship spicey!!!!!!!! Thank you all please can i have some honest nice responces!
2006-07-14 20:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by brandi_23sc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By your words, it seems that you're too dictative which will have a negative impact on his ego. When a woman demands or expect her spouse to perform beyond his limits, its a humilation in his subconscious mind.
Try soften a bit, let him catch up progressively to your standards.
Do not dictate at this moment, be merely initiative, and let him take back the reins, inorder for him to feel macho for a start.
The art of teasing.
Wear thin hugging long dress where it reveals nothing more than your curves and half of your boobs sometimes when you bend down. Slight rub-bys every now and then when passing by, chance on tight passages to pass him by.
After running around for some chores give him a small hug from behind while he's on a couch, make it seems like a much needed 1 sec rest, nothing more, move away to continue with your chores.
When you're finished, sit and then gradually press near him claiming you're aching a bit here and there, ask for a bit of massage at the upper hands, below the armpits and inner thighs, due to prolonged standing :) Just to make him make accidental rubbing of those erotic portions.
Slowly moan lightly of comfort derived from his light massage, ask for encore, make it known to him that he is giving you pleasure.
If he baits from this very moment, we will proceed to the next step, if not, just smile off with a peck to his cheek thanking him for the massage, rest down beside him to enjoy his TV show.
There will always be a next time. From your words, I think your hubby will melt down to your wifely woman's grace.
If he baits, he'll start to feel you over.
Submissive sex enjoyment.
When he lays you down, do nothing at first, just close your eyes
and let him perform his manhood.
Give him light moans, not wild moans pls, draw long deep breath with shallow quick breaths just to let him know he hit the right buttons.
Try for once for a better start of a new found confidence for him.
Let him ride you submissively and lay down to enjoy.
Killer stroke (for you only) use very sparringly to look genuine.
When he ejaculates, grab at those linen or dig your nails in his back, bite your teeth, give him a big silent stare right at his eyes.
If he asks whether you are really enjoying that much, don't answer him, just smile and turn away, look coy.
Man will not exchange anything in the world for that very moment. His machoness and libido will shoot up the ceiling.
But alas, you will start to worry bout his roaming eyes later.
Seems like you have to play the docile kitty for him for a while.
But it is worth all the while for your everlasting & loving marriage.
2006-07-14 21:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by davmanx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HIM WHATS HE WANTS BUT IF THAT DOESN'T WORK TRY THIS: LET HIM TAKE A SHOWER WHEN HE COMES HOME FROM WORK AND GIVE A MESSAGE AFTER HIS HOT BATH HIS WHOLE BODY ALL OVER THOUGH MAKE HIM RELAX AND THEN GET IN BETWEEN HIS THIGHS START TO KISS HIM SOFTLY THEN JUST A LITTLE KISSES ON HIS D**K THEN MOVE TO HIS CHEST AND KISS THERE AS YOU ARE DOING THAT RUB HIS BACK LIKE YOU ARE MESSAGE IT KISS HIS CHEST UNTIL YOU FEEL HIM GET HARD THEN DROP BACK DOWN AND GIVE SOME HEAD LIKE HE HAS NEVER HAD BEFORE SUCK IT LIKE IT WAS CANDY IN YOUR MOUTH LET HIM F**K YOUR FACE LIKE IT WAS YOU P***Y AND MAKE SURE YOU GO UP AND DOWN A LOT AND KISS IT TOO........BY THEN HE SHOULD BE READY TO IT BUT IF NOT I DON'T KNOW ALL MEN LOVE HEAD IT IS JUST HOW YOU DO IT.
2006-07-15 03:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by camille_harris25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dominatrix outfit, a strap on, a whip, some handcuffs and make him do what you want. Tie him up and pump away at his butt hole with your strap on. Who cares if he enjoys it, push his pooh in.
What you can do also is slap his nuts with a ping pong paddle. Then buy a chain and some weights and hook his sack up to that chain and weights. Stretch those things until he begs for mercy. Then pour some hot wax on his butt hole.
You can also try to lose some weight because more than likely you're just a nasty fatty. Try washing your vagina and make it smell nice. You should taste like honey not sourdough bread.
2006-07-15 03:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he comes home from work be lying in bed with an open robe. then he should be so horny he will do just about anything
2006-07-15 03:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried watching adult movies together? Try it. It may work for him.
2006-07-15 03:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a liar- (either here in the question or there in the profile...which is it? Brandi -if that's even your real name!!!
are you even a Female??
2006-07-17 00:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shuffleking Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were something sexy ,and just try something new that you never did before.
2006-07-15 03:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your husband is frigid that is y he dont get seducted. seek profesional help.
2006-07-15 03:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by hollywoodjack111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋