I used to be shy. Really shy. And I still have a bit of a quiet personallity but all-in-all I'm much more out-going than I used to be.
My problem used to be that I was too shy and I'd never talk to girls but now that I'm more confident and try talking to girls I just get called "creepy". But I'm not a creepy person. I'm respectfull to women and I've even yelled at a few of my friends for not practicing fidelity towards their significant others.
Sometimes I tell myself what people see as 'creepy' is just a product of my being so shy for so long. I tell myself it's because I never learned social skills at the same level as the people around me.
I don't know if that's actually true but I want to get past it. How can I talk to a girl so that she doesn't find me creepy but also doesn't regard me strictly as a friend. I get a lot of that too. "Just friends." It's because I'm nice. I care for the people around me.
How can I fix this? How can I get a girl?
2006-07-14 20:19:33 · 8 answers · asked by Luce's Darkness 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do listen to them. That's usually what gets me labelled as 'just friends'.
To be honest there have been a few girls interested in me, but they have always come in some circumstance which renders them completely undateable. Some have been co-workers, some already had a boyfriend. In one instance the girl was legally insane and had been institutionalized twice. She was a sweet girl but she had bad habbits that caused many problems for me.
2006-07-14 20:32:32 · update #1
okay, your situation is just bad. not only are you already restricted as the qiuet type but you have also been creepy, by laying to hard about getting a girl, that is socially around you, and knows you histpory. i'd advice that you try dating outside of the people youve known for a lllooonnngg time, and meet new girls, and know them, yet make it obvious that you seek her as a girl friend and nit a friend. sorry that you cant find a girl, but it'll be better if you change your self a bit more. be nice, yet make sure she understands what type of relationship your looking for. good luck...
2006-07-14 20:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey buddy. my advice to you is not to say anything of signifigance about yourself ever. Women dont like to be in a conversation unless you are asking questions and she is talking. Try it. Also being an jerk works pretty well too if all you are interested in is getting a girl. Probably get the wrong ones that way, they might be cute but they will eventually hurt you unless you really are an jerk. But useful nonetheless for getting some experience. Good luck and remember, just ask questions they can give you long answers to. BTW I am not a kid, married with kids now.... but it took me LOTS of practice to get there. Hang in there.
2006-07-14 20:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by lukeforthemoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u lacks social skill maybe u can ask someone to help you get out of ur shell one step at a time then overtime u will grow and have more self confident inyourself before u go up to a girl u have to be 110 percent confident ..if u are not maybe that why u creeping them out
2006-07-14 20:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdumplin10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your instincts and overhaul it if need be. And remember, u have to find one for urself as it is not transferable.
Remember failures are steppings to success.
2006-07-14 20:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by smilee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry Im sure u will find a nice girl soon! just be patient!
2006-07-14 20:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by the_pathnot_travelled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donno, why dont you listen to them!
maybe they have stories why they think your kreeepy.
Its not ahrd to find a girl!
I mean huy! taylor found me!.
whatch you talkin about!!!!!!?
2006-07-14 20:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
improve thyself.
2006-07-14 20:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard and she will come...
2006-07-14 20:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋