at times shes sweeter than sugar to me and at other times she just strait up ignores me. i mean whats the deal? does she want me back or not , it kinda seems like she just cant make up her mind. not only that but ive given her her space and been there when she needed me so what is it people , is she confused on what to do or is she just playing games?
2006-07-14 20:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by behind_blue_eyes2021 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can we say...head games. She wants to know that you want her and your there for her no matter whos shes with ..she wants you on standby. Say goodbye to that. I dealt with that crap for 10 years with a first love. Word to the wise,...itll never go anywhere.
2006-07-14 20:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by angelikness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a similar situation as my friend..
The question is not abt her.. it is abt you.. what is it that you want?
1. Do you stil wan her back? If yes, you have to have a straight talk with her, does she still wants to continue with the relationship, is there something bothering her, does she wants to give the relationship a 2nd chance, etc?
2. If you don't want to be with her anymore, put a stop to her nonsense.. u shall be the one to make up the mind. Tell her that it is time for both of you to move on, since the relationship is not going to work... be gentle & have a clean break...
2006-07-14 20:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by HaloVivian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously doesnt want u anymore and is looking for greener pastures but it isnt easy to forget someone so easily datz y she at times shes nice to u coz she misses u but at other times she just wont b able to stand u. if u want her theres still a chance , u have to b extra nice to her no matter how she treats u, neva cry,alwayz smile b caring and supportive but when u get the chance show her dat u still luv her and dat ur sad.shell weaken if u do it right and come cryin back to u
2006-07-14 20:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Evil Neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she is game playing. I take you are the dumpee and she is the dumper. If she called it off, man let her go. As long as you continue to allow her to manipulate you, she will always control you. It might hurt for a while, to actually cut ties with her, but do you want to be "Cathy's Clown"? Just think about it.
2006-07-14 20:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by bratchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just playing games with you. She doesn't want you but she doesn't want anyone else to have you. Its best to move on. I mean there is a reason you didnt work out in the first place isnt there?
2006-07-14 20:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's screwing with you to boost her own self esteem so she can get back into the swing of it... Think about it - why not try out your flirting skills with someone you KNOW will be receptive to it? She's just jerking your chain for her own gain. Blow her off next time and she'll get bent and quit it... she doesn't want to get back with you she just wants to use you as a diving board back into the dating pool
2006-07-14 20:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by gummybear1772 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes playing games.... dont fall for it
2006-07-14 20:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she messing with ur mind and emotions ..that's what it is sweetheart .. dont waste time on that .. u can do better
2006-07-14 20:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdumplin10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything shes playin with you!
2006-07-14 20:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋