and you have some idea of what it is but you dont know how to fix it. and you cant just kiss them because you are miles and miles apart. and you cant fly to see them cuz thats why they are mad, i think, in the first place. What would you do, i need your help.
2006-07-14 19:25:59 · 28 answers · asked by ♥Single Cutie♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say "I'm Sorry"
2006-07-14 19:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know the reason why you made them mad you are the only one that knows that but if you are miles apart and cant get back in contact then the things you could do is call them and hope they talk to you or write them and see if they contact you and if they love you and care about you they will contact you it just might take time and may be alot of it because if they were hurt or betrayed by you or they think they were then i dont know what you should do except give it time and see the reason why they are upset with you and i wish you luck with this just figure it out your not stupid
2006-07-15 02:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think i may have some in site for ya. I am in a long distance relationship, he's in another state. My bf, when we first started dating had a hard time opening up to me, and would hide from his own feelings and telling me how I made him feel. One night, over im, he logged off abruptly, and tried to im me back to fix what he had made be a problem. I relented and talked to him, he later sent me an e-mail telling me he saw how our conversation was going and said he thought i was getting uncomfortable, but i replied that i wasn't, and the rest solved itself.
I think you have a two part question, I can tell that my boyfriend gets upset with me not being able to visit him and make up for lost time or when I make him upset with me for falling asleep in front of my computer or asleep in general after work. But, in your instance, ask him what is wrong, and if there is some type of compromise- it seems as if you are in a long distance relationship, you should be good at that, see if there is someway both of your needs can be met. Also, if you're unsure of why they are mad- find out why, its better to know why someones angry with you. My bf and I are usually talking( instant messenger) every night, so we get to see how things effect each other.
2006-07-15 02:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by kmrelo04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them up and see if the relationship is really what you both want. If your miles apart its hard to keep it going because of the lack of intimacy. If for some reason its not going to work be the bigger person and let it go. Its hard but sometimes if you love the person enough you'll do what will make them happy even if it means hurting your self beyond imagination. Talk, Listen and be honest. Good luck.
2006-07-15 02:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be woman enough to send an "I'm sorry" card or apologies over the phone. Sometimes we say things and don't know how we effected someone. And vice versa. We cant be held accountable for everything we do if we don't know what we did in the first place. If they stay mad after that then at least you tried.
2006-07-15 02:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is within your power to control then fix it or make the changes it demands, if it's not within your power don't indulge or entertain the emotion. Frustration can disguise it's ugly little head as anger so make sure your distinguishing the difference between the two emotions. If the future doesn;t have resolution to an end for you and your friend then your problems have just begun! Sorry!
2006-07-15 02:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to think good thoughts for them. I try to understand why they did it and that pershaps they were hurting emotionally or physically and it was not against me personally. I try to pray for them. It helps I usually see a hurt person underneath that mean person and it makes me feel sorry for them. I realize that being mad only hurts me. I pray that they not hurt others if they are really horrible and evil. Like a rapist or abuser. I pray they are not beating their wife or huting children. It helps. I can pray for some evil man to be better and not hurt inside so that he will not hurt others. Not because I care about him. I cannot stomach that thought. Just because I do not want him to hurt anyone else. It helps me rid my thoughts of hate for him even if he has hurt me very badly.
2006-07-15 02:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront. Tell the person how you feel and sincerely
apologize. Get a conversation going so that you know for
sure what the issue is. Go from there.
Good luck
2006-07-15 02:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when you know what your fault is, you should phone him up and explain your behavior. But first think what went wrong and fix your error by knowing what was the matter that bothered him. If you don't know just ask him.
2006-07-15 02:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Amlan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd smoke weed and send them some, well if they or u dont smoke weed, i'd try to tell them why i dont smoke weed, so they shudn't be mad... thats simple, at the end you tell them a crazy guy on yahoo answers told u this and laugh together and no ones mad~!
2006-07-15 02:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by SeAnY --> bOi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is going to run every time you make him mad maybe you you should find someone that don't carry his emotion on his sleeves
2006-07-15 02:34:51 · answer #11 · answered by perryscshap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋