I dated this guy for over five years and we have had our hard times and good ones. We use to think we would last forever since we beat the odds. And now he started a new school and I just finished (I am ahead by two years). Things have always been a bit crazy but we never minded it. So last month an high school friend of mine returned from school and we hung out a few times and it lead to us kissing. I did not tell me bf right away but I felt the guilt. Not to mention my mother was diagnosed with Breast Cancer and my bf did not at all offer support and this other guy was a really friend about it. I spent a lot of time crying without the support of my bf. So two weeks ago he asked me if we should break up and I told him if he thoughts it would be best for both of us, so he said yes. Later that week we saw each other again and I told him I kissed my high school friend and he told me he met someone. I do not know if it was karma or just the way things needed to end. I am heartbroken .
2006-07-14 19:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will tell you one thing, it is not possble to stop loving someone after dating that long. it is possible that you two have grown apart because the older you get the more you both have changed and its possible that you two are not meant to be together at this point in time. as for the other guy go with your guts, but be cautious in what you do too.
2006-07-14 19:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by taceysay02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are you two just got to comfortable in your relationship and probably took each other for granted.let some time pass and both of you date a little bit- a person you've been with that long wont just forget you and just as he will enjoy his newfound freedom he will recognize the games and crap of it all and then you guys can talk about being together again.Unfortunately you got this started and it will have to play itself out-but all is not lost.I really think you need to date a little now-if he misses you too it could change his mind back real quick too and you wont seem or be so hurt. Life goes on and time heals everything.
2006-07-15 02:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh. You're in different schools, and long distance relationships usually never last. What did you expect? And who knows...maybe he knew about you two kissing? *shrugs* Anyways...is your relationship was rocky, should have broke it from the start. You should never prolong a relationship when there is no attraction, even if there is love.
~Thomas
2006-07-15 02:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt stop loving each other over a night..you fell out of love because of lack of attention and support..and you only feel heartbroken because you're thinking of your past and the days you two have spent together,,but truly, you're over him because he lacked attention in you..you should be over him..you don't deserve him..
2006-07-15 02:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~akoh~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was because he never loved you in the first place, just thought he did, i think people that love each truely would never seperate, i don't think you can grow out of true love!
2006-07-15 02:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mydogsrcute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can. i fell out of love wit my ex after 7yrs. i got tired of waitin on him to make up his mind to do things wit me and not without me. i left him and found my true soul mate.
2006-07-15 02:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by tapthisphatazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋