How can I make you feel more relaxed...say on a first date..out having dinner at a nice restarunt...or whatever...what could I say or do to make my first date feel less intimidating (or whatever) ???
2006-07-14 18:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by UlickNme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is really nothing. It is just weird to be with the girl that is being checked out by all the other guys instead of checking you out from a distance for the night
2006-07-14 19:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it's Disney's fault. I feel that many guys were taught to be nervous around beutiful women, because they saw it in Disney films, and thought that's how all men acted around beautiful women, and acted that way themselves. Fears are learned (the vast majority) from facial and body expressions of other people, and I think the fear of rejection is no different in this case.
I guess if you want to put him at ease, laugh at his jokes, make physical contact, I'm sure you know how, and be nice to him.
2006-07-14 18:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by wd20x2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just wanted to say about everything at once sincerely but the throat just got taffic jammed. The best way is to keep quiet & node at times.
After 2nd & 3rd date, we will be much more comfortable to talk. Give it a little more time to adjust. That's part of body chesmistry kinda thing.
2006-07-14 19:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by nyc3650 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act cool. Make him laugh, that will relax him. Let him pick out the conversation topic.
Let him feel comfortable around you. Then he will notice your inner beauty as well as the outer, which wont be the center of his attention anymore.
gooooood luck :]
2006-07-14 18:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by fancylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Well it is the reverse of your inquiry in my case Lady...
As i am a very open,and approachable man...
It's the Ladies who get a bit nervous when i will come right up to them and introduce myself...
And proceed to strike up a conversation...
Well some of them anyway...
They,as in your inquiry...
Seem taken aback that i am that open of a man ...
And am not intimidated by any means when it comes to as you state beautiful,or any Ladies...
As i think all Ladies are beautiful...
So why would i shy away....
If i did so,i would be a very lonely man indeed...
2006-07-14 19:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u can start with what he intrested, books, travel or hobby. man like u talk about dream (future dream not ur future relationship )and jokes. some man r shy because u r not use to date beautiful gals, it was like a chance of a life time. i felt that way before so i know. i m sure this would bring him alot of memory in future. kanmbade~!
2006-07-14 19:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I'm never nervous around women. Probably because I was raised to see more than looks. But if I was, just making sure I knew you were more than just a pretty face would help.
2006-07-14 18:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Date somone who intimitades you! Go for the challenge!
2006-07-14 18:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
touch his hand, middle of his back, give him a kiss on the cheek. make him feel warm, comfort him and he will relax.
2006-07-14 19:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Alone in a crowd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy just praise the fool he will believe u n relax
2006-07-14 19:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋