i am married and happy with my family then tell me shoul i friendship any other married woman?

Question

i am an embisious person. i am graduate and computer designer and working in pvt company and my salary is also good. my english is not good but i try to speak english so i want help my wife but she is ot interested. she is house wife and when i go to my office then she going to sleep yet she will try to practice to study and should help. she is very religious and andhvishwasi. i have 3 yrs son. i want to become him an intelligent and independent and sincere person and it will possible help of my wife. my wife done 12th but she is not well which she studied and not any knowledge about books and related tasks. so i feeling llonely and want friendship with another woman. is its right or not. if any woman understand my feeling then contact me at "[e-mail]"

Answer 1

You took a wedding vow, stick with it. We all make mistakes, but you have not done that yet, hopefully. You married your wife for reasons we know not, however just because she is not picking up the English language or wanting to study, is not a reason to form a relationship with another woman. Men have lady friends all the time, same as women have men friends. Just don't cross the line where you fall into sin. If you have relations with another woman outside your marriage, you have then committed adultery. That gives your wife grounds to divorce you and take your son from you. Are you willing to risk losing everything to include your son? You have a serious problem, you should seek counseling as well. Maybe your wife doesn't want to learn English, if that be the case.. I feel for her. But, you can't change her, like she can't change you. Two become ONE once married. Stay with her and work through this obstacle.

Answer 2

If you are with other married or unmarried women
, people will think you are messing around. That will humiliate your wife. Very bad idea, if you want to ever have peace and happiness in your marriage. Learn to love your own wife. If she isn't well educated, gently teach her. I'm sure she also wants the best for your mutual son. I am also a housewife and it's a much harder job than you know. Not long ago,I had a major medical problem, and could do nothing. My poor husband was run ragged, trying to keep up the house, clean, tend children, etc. Do you appreciate what your wife does? Re-reading you post, it sounds like your wife may be depressed, which is a medical problem. Your feelings aren't wrong, but your action in going to another woman would be. If your wife is, as you say, very religious, she would find it even more repugnant. Be very, very careful, whatever you do.

Answer 3

Look Rajesh to make friends is not a bad idea, rather it's good if your intentions are pure & just to resolve this purpode.

But first of all you should take your wife into confidence and involve her also into the solution for this.
And as other persons has rightly said.. try to resolve the things with your wife.

Answer 4

You need to work on things with your wife, instead of looking for another woman. Figure out a way to help her, yourself, and your son. Making friends with another woman is not the answer.

Answer 5

It's only alright if the relationship with other female are mutual. You sounded like you need more than just a mutual friendship. I begged you to seek counseling with your wife. You need to work it out first with her before leaning on other women in seek of understanding.

Answer 6

properly, I observed that happening quite a few circumstances, especial in those good age determination... frequently, females are of their accurate adulthood/femininity between 30/40..plenty, of youthful adult males (20/30) will be attracted a lot to females in that age -in his male psycho-sexual progression, Now as a youthful guy , for sure he can no longer see, somewhat added than what he sees now, (it is also a function of the 20's),,yet we ought to always always pay interest to the human journey represented by technique of our ''kin organic words,, (because his burden , married to at least one like his mom =adult males hammo 7ád wahdah ad omoh....it is totally without delay organic words in an Egyptian proverb)... That what we call the human journey,, for sure his kin could have some rejections ,as they understand that the guy will awaken in his ideal time (and that with guy between 40/50) to locate his spouse between (50/60-the down time of her femininity)... in most circumstances adult males in that age (40-50) may have an interest in the more youthful females once back (20-30)....As I observed one hundred's of acquaintances of their 40's and they purely remarried the 2d spouse who's youthful with an excuse that the first spouse who may be 35/39) is starting to be older I actual have only to operate, that there are a form of exceptions in all circumstances, and what i discussed above isn't utilized on (quite good adult males with ethics who once they're married , they don't look to have an interest in youthful or older anymore, and do not care a lot about actual positive aspects!!!),, yet are all of us those good adult males?? ---------- edit : I actual ought to operate, that there are also some psychological (lets say characters no longer disturbance concerning the psycho-sexual progression of guy : Oedipal complicated , or fetishism (better severe) the position each and every individual is fascinated in issues no longer commonly a form of the conventional allure between male and female , and which will be previous age)

Answer 7

No, it's not alright. You made a promise to your wife, and if you dont want to keep it you shouldn't lie to her. If u don't want to be with her anymore then get a divorce and tell her why, but don't go behind her back.

Answer 8

The best thing would to try and work things out with your wife, if you can.

Answer 9

FORGET THE OTHER WOMEN , CONCENTRATE ON YOUR WIFE, THE WOMEN WHOM YOU LOVE VERY MUCH AND HAVE A FAMILY WITH. DON'T BE A FOOL. DON'T OPEN UP A CAN OF WORMS THAT YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO CLOSE. STAY HAPPILY MARRIED. HELP YOUR WIFE WITH WHATEVER.

Answer 10

I beg to differ sir. Your idea for an educated person is right. But why you insist for a woman in particular. Please be noted with diversified intentions the main problem cannot be solved.