im 13 and never have had a boyfriend! what am i doing wrong???

Question

im 13 and never have had a boyfriend. when all me friends around me have had 3 or 4. am i like scaring off all the gyus???i mean i dont feel like im doing something wrong. gyus help me here what am i doing wrong? girls i need your advise. that and please don't give me hints with makeup my mom and dad say im not aloud to wear it. so what should i do?

Answer 1

Nothings wrong with you. You might not like hearing this, but you just haven't met the guy for you yet. There's no rush so take your time.

Answer 2

Well, actually, I'm very surprised that ur friends have had 3 or 4 already! That's kinda unusual actually. The truth is, many people may not get a boyfriend or girlfriend until their Junior year in high school! Really! I'm 17 and just graduated high school. I have many friends that are girls, and most of them have either had one, two, or no actual boyfriends at first. So don't worry! I didn't have my first kiss till I was 15! Which actually was a lot sooner then some other people, believe it or not. And I didn't have a "boyfriend" until 16! So it's ok... the best thing to do is to remain true to yourself and not to feel that u need a boyfriend for the sake of getting one. Rather to know when your ready, and to know whether or not you want to think of one of your guy friends as just a friend or a boyfriend. The thing is that guys are just as puzzled as girls at your age, so it's very hard for them to initial something. Most likely the guys you like like you but their too shy or nervous to do anything about it. Let them know how you feel, any way you feel comfortable. Because there is no hurry, and the key is to help the guy too, because they may seem all cute and cool and everything, but inside they are just as nervous or confused as you are, if not way more!

Answer 3

You're only 13. Pleeeaassee don't stress about that. You will have boyfriends in high school. 13 year old boys are usually pretty immature and not that interested in dating yet. Wait about 2 years and you'll be beating them off with a stick. I never had a real boyfriend until I was 15. Trust me, guys aren't worth the time and energy when you're 13 anyway. Just have fun before you worry about dating. You're definitely not doing anything wrong.

Answer 4

Trust me,when I was your age (less than 5 years ago) I didn't have a bf and was surronded by girls who did.Let me let you in on a secreat I learned,none of those girls were really happy,all they were in the relationship was for drama and trust me that was all it was.Trust me wait till your 15 or 16 years old and then ask this question.At 13 years old, you shouldn't be worried start to wondered at 15 or 16 years old why you don't have one.Though it is perfectly normal to go thru highschool all single ,some girls are even happier that way.

Answer 5

rumilb is RIGHT!!!
Gosh, why the heck would you even need a boyfriend.
Trust me, your friends are the ones missing out, not you. Your mum and dad are also right on the whole make-up thing too, I mean, dude, why would anyone at the age of thirteen need to wear make-up? It's totally ridiculous and tacky.
And at the age of thirteen you probably wouldn't even get a ahem. . .boyfriend.

Have fun just being your own person and being thirteen, when your older and more mature, which you aren't at the moment, you'll realise that boyfriends at that age are stupid and pointless. I bet your friends aren't really all that stoked about the whole boyrfriend.

And Um, JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND DOESN'T MAKE YOU MORE MATURE, OR SOCIALLY COOLER.
As sombody ******* than you, trust me.

I think you need to grow up and stop acting like your older than your parents!!
Cheers

Answer 6

You are to young to really start worring about boys. They are always gonna be there where ever you turn. Just concentrate on making friends and good grades those two will help you farther along in your life than boys will. The only thing boys your age are really into is sex. They come and go. But friends and grades are forever.....but if you really want a boyfriend....be funny, outgoing and strong. Let them know you can't be pushed around. That way they like you for who you are.

Answer 7

NOTHING. you are doing NOTHING wrong.
There is no reason for a 13 year old to have dated 3 or 4 guys. When I was 13 my mom took me and a guy to the movies and sat a few rows behind us. You have so much to look forward too and so much responsibility why worry about this now. The guys will come, but don't force it. Be happy with who you are and that's what counts.
P.S. Don't email that guy who posted his address, that can't be anything good.

Answer 8

You're 13 and worried about never having had a boyfriend?? I was 16 before I had a boyfriend! Trust me, relationships at this age don't mean anything. You'll just regret them later! Be greatful you haven't wasted your time. You're fine on your own! Right now, your only reason for dating would probably be because you feel pressure. You should date someone because you love them, not because everyone else is doing it.

Answer 9

Your 13 you have your whole life to get a boyfriend so NO theres nothing wrong with that at all. I m 16 an believe me boyfriends are not all their cracked up to be soo when you do get one your going to be like why was I in such a rush so just relax you'll get a boyfriend sooner or later.

Answer 10

You're doing nothing wrong. I didn't have a girl friend until I was 14, and looking back the 3 years I think it was worth it...until she cheated on me, but other than that it was good. Don't wear makeup it makes girls look like cheap dolls. Anyways, just hang on, it'll happen eventually.

Answer 11

i think the b/f that u r mentioning refers to intimate type right? well for a 13 yo, i think is ok, i m sure u hv lots of boy & girl friends , what's wrong with that, why u want a special b/f at this young age, girl? just enjoy the way as it is. next time u may not even want to just hv A boyfriends maybe
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