how can i be good mother?

Answer 1

If it were so easy, everyone would be having kids, you know? It sounds like such a simple question, but it's so complex to answer.
I think the primary thing is to demonstrate your love to your children, make them feel safe, wanted, appreciated, and valued. Remember that you are their mother first, friend second. Share experiences growing up, things you liked or didn't like. Do things together....even the simplest things, like making cookies or having a 'movie night' at home are things that children appreciate and love. Always, always remember that making time for them is key.

Answer 2

i think like the newly born child doesn't has to be taught how to drink milk
similarly
a mother cant be taught how to be a good mother a mother is never a good mother but is better than best mother
still if you want to know then my answer would be
always accept her good as well as bad
but never encourage the child to do bad things
it is not true that a good mother is one which always loves her child but is one who has the courage to punish the child when he is wrong which in future will make the child a good citizen or person

a good mother is one who understands her child and know his potentials

how always grooms his hidden talents

a good mother is one who by herself is a very good human being and is fit to be an idol in front of her child

ALL THE BEST

Answer 3

By asking that question you show that you already are a good mom. Mothers worry and show interest or concern in everything about their children. Children also don't come with owner's manuals so we are equipped with instincts and intuition. Mothers and daughters become friends when daughters become mothers.

Answer 4

Well alot of my husbands friends call me a tight ***. But all my friends and family say im an excellent mother. And the key is be a tight ***. I dont allow smoking near him and never will, Im on demand to change his diapers when needed, feed him when hes hungry, Just tend to his every need and dont worry about spoiling him. So what if your childs spoiled it just means hes cared and loved for. And one day your not going to be able to "spoil" him. And no it doesnt mean you get rid of your tv and get off the internet cause mommys need there time to. As long as baby is taken care of!

Answer 5

If you need to ask this questions, you may not be sure of yourself right now. Are you experiencing any depression? I suggest you talk to your priest, counselor, doctor, or better yet... your mother, sister, friend. Sounds to me you may have some emotional conflicts with your role as a mother. Discuss your thoughts with someone you look up to and regard as emotionally grounded.

Answer 6

good mother hmm it's jus makes da child feel it.first don't try much just try to b a fren to ur child.jus think him to b ur classmate or an old fren n make him discuss everything with u.dis can b done by great love n affection.also try to instill some fear in him on u wen u become serious coz it wud b handy to limit him if he travels in da wrong direction.but for a kid dis is not advicable.be urself a kid ur self n act of da same age like ur son/daughter.listen to dem patiently n remmeber patience is da main thing dat counts

Answer 7

raise them to become independent adults. open communication, talk to them about everything and let them know that they can do the same. keep stable relationships in their life, do not drop and add friends all the time, they need a network of people that they can count on. Most importantly, parent first, friend second.

Answer 8

Be firm yet gentle. No means no...even if they throw a temper tantrum. Don't give your baby cereal in a bottle, don't let Baby Einstein entertain your child. You need to be the one to teach him things. If you child asks a question be informative about it even if its embarrassing. Body parts and functions are not shameful. Teach them manners, self respect, and to be responsible for their own actions.

Answer 9

Read the fabulous book 'Raising Children, Raising Ourselves' by Naomi Aldort and allow your mind to be open to new ways of thinking :- )

Nice question!

Answer 10

Do the very best that you can. That is all your kids need. To be understanding and strong and discipline them constructively.