I was driving to work one day when a guy honks to get my attention and asks me for my number. I politely declined and took off leaving him behind him. On the way, I stopped by a liquor store to get a drink and when I stepped out, there he was, standing with his car parked right next to mine. I ignored him and drove away, this time faster. I thought I had lost him when a few minutes after I started working, the same guy comes in saying he wanted to "rent a movie" asks for my number again. I thought to myself "whoa, a stalker". Again, I declined and lied that I wasn't single. He left but then appeared at the store again a couple days later asking me out. He didn't believe me when I told him I was already seeing someone. He came to the store again just yesterday with his friends claiming that he just came in to rent a movie but asked before he left, "So, have you made up your mind yet?" as if he didn't hear me reject him before. What do I do if this guy keeps showing up?
2006-07-14 18:13:07 · 2 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may have to get a restraining order. This dude sounds pretty psychotic. Definately DON'T date him. A fixation formed that quickly is a good sign of a disturbed mind. Not that you're anything but ravishingly gorgeous, but visual attraction alone's not normally so powerful that a guy's gonna follow you around town and after finding out where you work, keep showing up.
Try to be polite about it, but be FIRM. Tell him you're not interested, and are beginning to feel harassed. (that word's a pretty good red flag for most guys out there) If he keeps showing up, call the cops and keep him at your store long enough for them to have a "chat" with him. They can check his identity, and let you know who he is. Then, you'll be able to consider a restraining order.
2006-07-14 18:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-15 01:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by tdang424 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋