and what can i do to look good and be prepared for it?
2006-07-14 18:11:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll enjoy it. Just be very, very sure that he's that important to you, because once you've given your virginity, it's gone. I waited until marriage, although I married young. It really helped my husband trust me all through our marriage (17 years and counting). "If you were faithful before we were married, I know you'll be faithful after we're married. " Old fashioned? Maybe. But it works. By the way, he was a virgin,too, although I didn't know it at the time. Why? In his words,"I didn't want to mess up my body with some cheap girl..." A word to the wise...
2006-07-14 18:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by the other one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, I'd advise to not have sex with this guy. Wait until you are married before you have sex. If you start having sex now, you have a chance of getting STD's and to become a mother sooner then you may want to. And no birth control is 100% effective.
You can not get back your virginity after you lose it, so hang on it for dear life. It is not worth losing it to some guy if you are not married to him. You are setting yourself up to be hurt. I am not saying you will be, but the chances are very high. Also, sometimes after you have sex with a guy, the guy leaves. I am not saying that this guy will do that, but some do. So think about it a long time before you jump.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-14 18:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. That is one of those things you can't screw up.
He'll enjoy it, no matter WHAT!
Just relax and everything will just come naturally to you.
We all aren't alike identically.
You'll know what to do once your there.
Even animals know.
Don't worry. He'll love it! Just show up. That's all you have to do.
All the fancy stuff comes MUCH later down the road.
He'll show you or you'll have your OWN ideas by then but you don't need to worry about being fancy and creative right now.
People who are dating, that have had a lot of experience, don't start getting wild with it, the first few times they have sex. Well, not USUALLY.
So, don't worry, you'll be fine.
2006-07-14 18:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like u should be doin it if u r worried about how to prepare or what u should look like, u should be comfotable with this guy n it should come natural + the guy should pleasure u cause no matter what he will get his jollies off before u if this is his first or few times doin it. also u should know its goin to be uncomfortable, a little bit painful, n there is a certainty that there is goin to be blood come from down below, it happens the first time a girl is penetrated down there
2006-07-14 18:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it with a guy you really LOVE and not just to do sex.
Once you are sure and on it with all the foreplays, don't rush, ensure a lot of natural lubricant is pouring out (if not then use artificial ones), you don't have to prepare nothing just be yourself.
it won't hurt if you look on a few films to know what to expect, there is first time for everything
2006-07-14 18:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually do not enjoy the first time due to pain and difficulty in penetration. Have some water based lubricant ready in case you are not wet enough. This can reduce the pain. Good luck and enjoy it. I hope you are old enough to have sex.
2006-07-14 18:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is MARRIED which skill he's off the industry and not obtainable. He promised to love, honor and cherish the lady he MARRIED. He additionally promised to be easy in basic terms unto her as a results of fact he's MARRIED. you're able to think of which you adore him, yet have self belief it, he shouldn't bypass away his spouse for you. while you're so specific that he will, I advise you bypass to his spouse and ask her first. i'm specific she has no theory you're even interior the image.tell him so long, as a results of fact as quickly as issues start up getting complicated it somewhat is strictly what he is going to assert to you. which skill in case you bypass with him and function intercourse with him you're no longer in basic terms stupid you're additionally a homewrecker and he's a cheater and a canine. No you mustn't provide your virginity to a MARRIED guy. he's not married to you and in case you do this fairly silly and reckless component you're somewhat the backside of the gene pool.
2016-12-10 07:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT do this... he will no longer respect you the same way... abstinence.. save this gift for the man that you will spend the rest of your life with. This guy will not be your forever, and then you will wish you hadn't.. why are you so worried about pleasing this guy? What about what's best for you? I promise you, you'll wish you didn't later....RESPECT yourself and save your virginity for somebody who is willing to really commit to you!!
2006-07-14 18:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCE YOU ARE A VIRGIN, STAY A VIRGIN, HE IS NOT WORTH IT. WHEN A GUY GETS A VIRGIN, THAT IS A BIG KNOTCH ON HIS LIST OF GIRLS THAT HE HAD SEX WITH. DON'T LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY OVER A STUPID BOY. SAVE YOURSELF FOR SOMEONE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU AND WANTS TO MARRY YOU. WAIT, PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE.
2006-07-14 18:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 make sure you use protection and dont worry about if he will enjoy it ( men always enjoy it ) take your time and dont do it unless your sure your ready
2006-07-14 18:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋