How do you know when youre in love? I mean do u have to be dating someone awhile to fall in love? There's this guy that i met online and i think he's great. He seems very caring and sensitive to my feelings as well as his own. We've only been talking for like a month i think, but we talk everyday. He tells me that he cares about me and i do believe him. Its just he lives in Texas and I'm In California. Do you think this relationship can withstand the distance? We talk several times a day on the phone and i really enjoy our convos. Is it too soon to fall in love with someone?Ive never cared so deeply for anyone this soon into our friendship. Is this odd? I mean am i just going too fast? He tells me alot that he cares about me but only after i tell him how i feel about him. I want to be with him. What i find very sexy about him is that he is a great father to his daughter. He really seems to love her and wants to take care of her. I enjoy talking to him all the time. Could I be in love with him?
2006-07-14 18:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by foreverb18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think long-distance relationships can work as long as there is a set time where you will get to be together to have a relationship that involves physically being together.
You definitely could. I don't think you'll get to feel the FULL effects until you meet him, so good luck with that.
I hope it IS love and that you both can work something out soon.
:)
2006-07-14 18:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Heart, I am sure that you love this person you know over the phone. If you love this person unconditionally, for all his faults and weaknesses and for all of his strengths is an entirely different matter, and the answer to that is no.
You only know him over the phone, and no, it is not odd that you love him because you only know a wonderful, kind person. We all have faults and secrets and problems, though, and until you know about all of these, you will never really know him or love him.
Yes, you are going too fast.
Please think with your head. Everything you know about him is based on assumptions and based on what he has told you. Fantasy and dreams and wishes and hopes are often very, very far from what the truth is.
Be careful and be smart!
P.S. How can you possibly think he's sexy? He might never brush his teeth and he may never use toilet paper for goodness sakes! You just don't know that much about him!
2006-07-15 01:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people may seem a certain way through the internet or the phone. when you know someone in person it is completely different. you are probably feeling deeply about some of the certain characteristics of this person, but that doesnt have to mean that you are in love with him. maybe you should take a chance and actually get to know him in person. talkign to him over the phone and through the internet would not qualify as a relationship. if you dont experiance his actions then you can never be sure about how he really feels for you. but thats just what i think. you should do what feels right for you. =)
2006-07-15 01:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by poopie face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can occur at first sight or it may take months and years. The important thing to realize is that he is making a lot of effort to stay in contact with you which probably means he has deep feelings for you too. Check to see how compatible your interests are and don't rush the relationship. It may take time for his son to develop feelings about you. Distance should be no problems if you are willing to relocate.
2006-07-15 01:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by msalisonlacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some say that you're in love when everything doesn't matter. From the way you talked abt it, i think you're in love. because you're considering a lot of great things about him and about the situation you're in. If I tell you otherwise, I bet you'll convince me how great he is or how happy you're feeling right now ;-)
so, you're inlove. but what about him? you'll know that he's into you if your opinion matters to him or if he asks your advice and lreally listens to what you say. nevermind that he says he likes you too, the thing is -he's the man and if he's inlove he'll do anything to be with you.
2006-07-15 01:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by CRISTINE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance is hard. Very hard. If you're in love--- if you feel that you can wait however long it is that you need to, and he feels the same--- then yes, it's love. I can't give you a flat out answer though, on if it will work out though.
2006-07-15 01:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by RedHatCore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you even met him face to face?
If not I'd say no, you're not in love.
You may love talking to him, and his traits...
But, if you've never met, then I'd have to say no.
And be careful who you talk to online and on the phone
that you don't know...I'm not saying he's bad, cause I don't know
him. But, beware there are bad people out there...
2006-07-15 01:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by photoguy1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-15 01:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably yes, probably no, well, i too can make girls feel loved through this internet thing,.. but you never know... God only knows... don't give in soo fast, if that thing last for a year, there's a very high posibbility that your inlove...
2006-07-15 01:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel this connection with ure partner n u feel confortable with him n can ask him or do anythin in front of him without the feeling of being embarrased. so ya it is marry him
2006-07-15 01:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋