What do you do if a girl is hitting on your BF?

Question

what if she is his friend and ex girlfriend

I am not a mean person eather

Answer 1

the best thing to do in that situation is just to ignore it...that's if you really love your BF and you trust him. if you feel that you are secure with ur BF and you know that he will never replace you for that girl who is hitting on him, then there's really no need to worry about that. if another girl is hitting on ur BF, u should just treat it as a compliment....because that only shows that your BF is appealing and u know you picked the right one. you dont have to pick a fight with those girls who hit on your BF bcause u dont want to put yourself in their level. just be cool and collected, and show your BF that he can never find anyone like you again and maybe then he'll value you more. relax girl... you're smart.

Answer 2

Don't be aggressive towards the other girl ... that could very easily backfire. Instead, focus on your relationship with your boyfriend, and on strengthening that (without smothering him). Most guys are turned off by girlfriends that act insecure or jealous, and who act concerned or upset every time they're just talking with other women. Just keep being yourself. Be friendly with him, and you don't really need to shun the other girl either. Let them both know that you're confident in your relationship with him.

Answer 3

Invite her to a 3-way.

If she doesn't accept, that will likely be the last you hear of her.

If she does accept, the two of you can compete in bed over your boyfriend. As you initiated the3-way in the first place, you really can't lose, and your boyfriend will love you forever for this.

Answer 4

Mmm, many of you take aggresive apporaches to the situation. You probably have an emotional connection to this type of situation, and you're probably not wrong or right. But the situation itself needs to be thought about rationally. The best way to understand a person to emphsize with them without inflicting your emotional in their perspectives.
It's probably best for you to speak with your BF about the situation, tell him your jealous or such, but be honest. Depending on the type of person he is, he might either feel more attraction to you because you were jealous, or he might be turned off. But that is up to you, and how much you know about him. Relationships are very complicated to resolve without detailed information, like what age are you, or how long have you known him, how deep are you two, and etc.
The main factors you should probably deal with, is how to accept the situation. If you do think his, or her flirting is too strong for a "friendship" type of situation, try to improve your lust for each other. From what i know making them love you more, or liking the person you are won't do much. But of course....it's a different situation if you're old, and have no harmones left inside you. For the sake of the relationship, lean his attraction towards you, so if either is he or she was flirting or not, you will still improve your relationship for the greater good. Try being spontaneous at times...i recommend something as simple as a pin-on for his chest with your name inscripted on it, and if you do want to intimate the person he's flirting with, make a pin that shows or describes his love for you. But it can also be used as a test as well, if you find that he is not wearing the pin at the end of the day, and do try to surprise him because he might try to pin the botton as soon as he senses your presence. Don't give him a chance to sense you, surprise him. Only try this method if you're still young and vibrant though...and if you're old, i would suggest getting a rose with no scent, and then using the perfume you use everything, and spray it on the rose. He might smell it through the day, and might remind him of you, that is, of course, if he still has the rose at the end of the day. I can think of many ideas, and spontaneous things ppl can do for their love ones...from like making a poster of yourself for their rooms, to building a paper crane and written inside, a haiku, that would represent your love for him....or her. Err...anyways, there are many ways to show attraction...and there are some times, where guys, such as myself, like to have the "chase" all over again.

In any case, if that doesn't work, you shouldn't be too attached to that person. Understand that, flames grow and fades as quickly as time passes. There are some relationships that lasts years, most of them eventually lead to boredom of each other, but there are some that are very active. That, of course is almost impossible in our modern world, where like 99% of our population either lose interest in their mates in a marriage or get a divorce. Eventually, you've come to realize, even though long term happy can occur, it's best not to hope one day you'll be able to walk on the moon. And it doesn't really matter if you have a fairy tale relationship, tv is tv, life is reality. Come to love "love" itself as a flaw, because, if you can't accept love for it's flaws, how can you love what good things it can offer too? I know some people who have been so-called "single" most of their lives, and they were happy, because there were so things they got to experience that people who have been married for 60 years never had the chance to. But of course, it can be vice versa as well.
What i'm trying to say is, don't attack the girl who is flirting, or even your BF, but it will only worsen the situation. Just let the acknowledge your love for each other without letting your BF know about your jealousy, but of course, i would recommend telling him you're jealous as the first option. It's up to you really, but do let it play out. You can meddle in their situation, or they will both feel threaten, and he will leave you. The reason why most relationships break up is because during a fight, the opposite mate walks out, to release their emotions. The only problem was....they were releasing their emotions and opening their hearts to the wrong person.

I hope that helps
~Thomas

Answer 5

Trust your boyfriend to not accept her advances as anything more than flirting. It's his job to say no.

Answer 6

Trust your boyfriend to be the one to turn her down. kickin her *** would only lead in you going to jail and him maybe thinking less of you.

Answer 7

Hit on her bf. If she doesn't have one, then kick her a$$.

Answer 8

if you think something is developing between them then ask your friend first before doing anything drastic... if she starts flirting with him and dosen't listen to your pleas then there's something SERIOUSLY wrong with you friend

Answer 9

welll id ******* beat the **** outta the *****!unless he is flirting right back!then go after ur boyfriend

Answer 10

Tell her to lay off if that don't work then kick her @ss.