I'm 18 studying in an overseas college... I think i have a crush on my teacher. This thought scares me though...cause he's aged. He's humour and he's the only one that makes my daily life full of laughter ... for 50mins? I'm trying 2 get rid of it but still... i think i need some advises from u guys...thanks
2006-07-14 17:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by big2foot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you look at my bio you'll see that I'm a teacher. Let me say that in my experience I have been in the shoes of your teacher. Needless to say it was very flattering, but honesty and integrity and professionalism dictate that nothing other than a teacher-student relationship exist.
I don't know about your teacher, but in my case I'm married and I love my wife very much. I'd never jeopardize our relationship with a student.
Enjoy your teacher, learn from him (or her), cherish your time in the classroom, but remember if he ever reciprocates if you make your feelings known, then he may be a good teacher, but he's not much of a human being.
TX Guy
2006-07-14 17:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I'd say this is a conflict of interests, but it probably wouldn't be good for him to have the publicity of having a relationship with a student. Perhaps later in your life when you've graduated or are farther in school, but I'd say not now. It is probably advisable to quench your feelings/desires for the mean time. After you are no longer his student and have further advanced in your studies then possibly tell him. If he's married, leave him alone. But hey, at least your an adult and not underage!
2006-07-14 17:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by I Have The Answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more common then you think and is not something to be ashamed of. People in a position of responsibility and power do seem to able to portray an aura to some people. However, I would advise you do not become serious and possibly aim for someone closer to your own age. But you should deal with your feelings and understand your position and grow out of the love.
2006-07-14 17:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by msalisonlacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is a crush and that you admire him and hope to find someone with his qualities one day. Age differences are difficult and student/teacher relationships can get messy. Feel good that you are lucky to have such a good experience with this teacher and hunt someone like him in your age category.
2006-07-14 17:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who didnt have a crush on a teacher at one point and time?
Enjoy it now, because youll be getting over it soon.
2006-07-14 17:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Concentrate on studies. Love your family and you can't spend life with humour.
Time will tell you how wrong you might proove.
2006-07-14 17:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by crak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act on it. It is normal to have a crush on a teacher. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Give it time. It'll pass.
2006-07-14 17:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens.You'll get over it.it might take some weeks to let go but it will defenitely go.Usually these crushes are just temperory.Not permanent.So nothing to worry about.
2006-07-14 17:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens all the time to us guys....don't worry its normal, well for a young teacher anyways old teachers are another story.
2006-07-14 17:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by thisis j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... that's not good. you are doing the right thing by trying to get rid of it. try to focus your attention on something else.
2006-07-14 17:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Susan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋