If a girl dresses like a wild party girl but deep inside she's conservative?

Question

I'm a girl who likes to party a lot...but not alcoholic and not into smoking.. but deep inside my heart when it comes to relationships.. i'm like an old fashion believer like one's virginity should only be given to the guy whom one really love the most

I'm a girl who likes to party a lot...but not alcoholic and not into smoking. and dnt get me wrong..i dnt dress like a whore..NOT AT ALL... but deep inside my heart when it comes to relationships.. i'm like an old fashion believer like one's virginity should only be given to the guy whom one really love the most

Answer 1

Put it this way. If you dress slutty you are giving the guys the impression that you are easy. But since your not, they probably will call you a tease. Which isnt a bad thing. Just be careful about the message youre sending out.

Answer 2

There is a saying "First Impression Counts" Whatever U have deep beneath in ur Heart, others know U firstly with ur outer menifestations. Thats ur Dress (Fashion), Ur behaviour towards the others, and ur reactions toward the happinengs around.

From these, on close study, one can guess what U R.

But If U camoflauge Ur actual Identity, Ur actual identity is invisibe then.

U said U like partying, But U R not alcoholic and not into smoking, that suggests that U wish to enjoy being in a Party But U actually dont participate in all the activities. No Issues, many R such.

U love the fun, colour and granduer of the Party, but deep In urself, U seek a sweet safe and cool home with a homely man, U R not in a wild passion there. No Issues, most R such.

What U believe about Ur virginity, UR true. Its the special thing U have, can share that with only one in ur life, so U wish to present that gift It to only one who is priceless to U.
U R absolutely Ok with Ur thought, Its yours, U would decide whom U would give that. Its not Old fashioned, Its something I would call U R possessive about and U should be. Its something special U have in U, No One can give that back to U once U loose that.

Be HAppy Baby, U r absolutely Right.

Answer 3

The only thing that is bad is that people will assume you're a party girl before they meet you. While it's not right that people pre-judge, it's the truth of life. So, if it bothers you that creepy losers hit on you and assume you're easy, or that people don't respect you because they think you're dumb or a bad person, then change the outside to present a better message.

Answer 4

Well you know who you are and that is great. but you are confusing others. Unfortunately we live in a society where people predetermine who you are from outward appearances.

So dress like a wild party girl when you are going to wild parties. And dress how you want others to view you. I am not trying to tell you what to do, so dont take it that way.

But at the end of the day dress in what you feel comfy. The only person you have to deal with after it's all said and done is you. So dont worry about the rest of us.

Answer 5

You might have old fashioned views on the world hon, but if you are displaying your goods to the world like a wild party girl, don't get mad if people think that you are easy. And the guy that you love the most should be a husband.

Answer 6

ditto. I love to have a good time, but no alcohol, smoking, or sex. I'm so shy when it comes to clothing, that I don't even dress like a party girl though LOL much as I'd like to try it, I'm scared to

Answer 7

okay. I have friends like you too, they just go to the party for fun, not looking for some wild stuffs or one night stands or some hook-up relationships. Their cup of tea, i guess. I dont like partying and clubbing. I dont mind. Whatever floats your boat. BUt then again, i dont really know what your question is.

Answer 8

if you want to be perceived by people as a conservative girl..then you better act like it and dress like it. If you want people to respect you for who you are and your principles..then you have to show them that you're worth that. you see.. your outer looks and how you carry yourself with people reflect what's really in your heart. if whats in your heart is that you are conservative & your virginity is important to you, then you have to show them that that's really who u are. when you dress wild and act wild, they'll just think you're an easy girl. i think you're just in a personality crisis right now. you dont know whom to follow. maybe your wild part is just influenced by your friends who act and dress the same. but if you really want to be who u are and to be unique... you dont have to conform to ur friends or whats in the world...bcause you know better than that and you are unique. good luck.

Answer 9

if you want to be in a relationship with that kind of personality then go ahead and go for it you have the type of attitude that when you want to have a good time you will have a good time, but when you need to act conservative you are that way and that is something that happens as a good thing in a relationship

Answer 10

If you dress wild - unfortunately you will be perceived wild. However when this happens - be strong - stick to your morals and remind people that "you can't judge a book by it's cover".