I messed up with one guy, and he moved on. Then I found someone else, and he is great and I love him to death, but I still have feelings for my first guy. What to do?
2006-07-14 17:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is normal. And to let you know you did not messup. If you two could not get along then that was what happened. You did not get along. You did not mess up and nor did he. There are many women I would like to be with but we would not get along and not my fault nor theirs. I may not believe in god and they might. Could be that simple. But everyone will not match with everyone.
Good luck. .And love who ever you like. It is your right. Don't limit your heart and don't let someone else tell you how you should feel inside. It is your insides not anyone elses.
2006-07-14 17:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so know how you feel. Been through it at least 2 different times. But that's b/c mom thought I was making a mistake and i knew I wasn't. Anyway, you could always pray about it. That's what I did when I was in your position. You can always love someone and still like someone else. To me, that is human nature, but it's also not right b/c your not being fair or truthful to yourself or w/the other person. Find out who you really want and why. If the other one moved on then why are you still worried? You need to move on to. He probably wasn't the one for you anyway.
2006-07-15 00:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes at many different levels,, with time your love for the new man will outweigh the feelilngs u have for the one that moved on,, give it time
2006-07-15 00:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take sometime to yourself til you can sort your feelings,out unless your sure things with the first guy r truly over then the feelings will pass over time..
2006-07-15 00:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on love (verb), not just love (noun). Make more of an effort with new guy, and see if your heart will come around.
2006-07-15 00:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by FrankEs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all! Move on he has.
2006-07-15 00:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r no different we human being have this nature first LOVE is unforgetful
but my advice would be to search ur happiness in present guy and u may share ur emotion with him
2006-07-15 00:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all you can to extinguish the feelings you have for the guy you are not with. To NOT do so will damage your current relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-15 00:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on from the first guy. you two are over
2006-07-15 00:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋