I'm not having much luck with dates or a man stayin around long.
2006-07-14 17:26:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my wife had three kids and found me. Are you looking in the right places? I mean, i think when she and i started dating i was at the point in my life when i was ready to settle down, so maybe you should look for an older guy or someone very responsible. You know you just don't want to bring any old jerk into your kids' life. you want someone who can be a role model and father. As of right now, we hjave been married 4 yrs. and just bought a home, and i'm no lazy guy with a beer gut either! Lol! Don'r give up and don't lower your standards!
2006-07-14 17:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by mike j 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can. But remember some guys (not all) think because a woman is single and has a child she's easy so they'll hang around until they get what they're after and then the disappear. You don't have to be used to find someone. Don't "be" with someone just so you're not alone. Respect yourself and you'll find your special person.
2006-07-14 17:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if your not having much luck with finding a man then you should just wait till a great man finds you who will love you an your kid(s). But I know that there's someone out there for you.
2006-07-14 17:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by leihuaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she's willing, she looks in the right city, right state, right places and her family permits her, too. It's my expereince that single mothers have a mental resistance, a cowardice when it comes to committment, some times caused by her family's brain washing and controlling her. But that might not be your case. Even good men have requirements which have to be met. If men don't like children, or if they like them but don't get along with them, they vanish and no more relationship. That could be why they don't stay around long. Run a classified ad in the newspaper under women seeking men. Mention that the man who you seek, has to like children and thave you have children.
2006-07-14 17:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Date Single Mothers!
Guys, if you are even thinking that dating a single mother is a good idea, get to Leykis 101. Don't make this very basic, and potentially costly, mistake!
2006-07-14 20:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your real problem is you don't know what to look for. Just because a guy wants to get in your pants does not mean he is "the one", matter of fact it is almost the opposite. May I suggest you stop looking so hard and work on yourself, then you will be ready for a real relationship.
2006-07-14 17:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in your shoes ,, it sux i met someone special only a yr ago and i was single for 5 yrs before that i was single for 4 yrs.. i just concentrated on raising my girl.. i went out on heaps of dates and it was fun for a while but i got hurt so many times.. don't worry and don't seem so desperate cause guys pick up on it .. act real cool .. enjoy being single and enjoy your kids , don't dwell on being alone forever cause you won't be .. and one day im sure you'll wish you were single again..lol
2006-07-14 17:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy but it happens all the time. how many kids do you have? how much work do you do? You need to find some time for yourself for that to happen. And, you know what, there are single dads too...
2006-07-14 17:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a single mom does not mean that you won't find love. It's a little more difficult sometimes, but it will happen.
2006-07-14 17:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would it wouldn't bother me I go for personality and connection not the past...good luck though
2006-07-14 17:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by inebriateddrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋