He tells me he doesn't love me and we do not have a future together, but when he leaves for work he calls me over and over. He calls me every nite to tell me good nite. He calls me because he thought of something he needed to tell me.
I am very attached to him and would never go out with anyone else, but what is the point if he doesn't love me? This whole relationship is making me really confused. He has my heart and my soul, but it seems like I don't have his or at least he says so.
He already has committed to a shopping trip with me on Monday, and has asked me to come over on Sunday. I work all weekend and am not off until Sunday nite.
What to do?
2006-07-14 17:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves you but is afraid to say it.
Many men are commitment phobic.
Give him some time and don't even bring it up for a while. Hopefully you can enjoy his love even though he doesn't say it. It is a rare man that is willing to go shopping with a woman.
2006-07-14 17:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation isn't an easy one. It sounds like maybe he really does love you, but is not ready to commit. But you have to be careful of your feelings especially since you are already totally in love with him. If he is telling you he does not love you and there is no future, perhaps you should consider moving on. It is not healthy to continue down the path you are on. Just be direct with him and ask him what he is doing. What kind of game is he playing. Let him know it isn't fair and you need to worry about your feelings.
2006-07-14 17:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to blow him off a little.Don't be there when he calls. Then when he asks why you are never there,you tell him that your love for him hurts every time you are together.Tell him you decided you need to distance yourself from him to protect your heart. Then stay away from him. He will come to you and confess his love for you! You will see!
Good Luck!
2006-07-14 17:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW sounds very clingy. You have to do what you can and only freak when it gets serious. YOu are saying it is not serious for him then Just be his "friend"... YOU WILL GET OVER HIM. You are worth alot and can find another person to love that will love you back the same.. Just keep looking.
2006-07-14 17:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Wildfirentampa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because u are one of the many stupid woman in the world. The ones who get rape, beat, pregnant at a young age, run away from home, prostitute, etc......
So let love make u stupid, I will be hearing about u in the local news.
2006-07-14 17:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by jhvesterjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I relay don't know.He sound's so mixed up.How come he acts like he doesn't trust you?Are you sure he is alright?He kinda sounds like he has strange issues? You need to ask him whats relay wrong.I'm sorry sweety
2006-07-14 17:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep continue. in future ask him whats the result of all this. else be good friend to him. thats all.
2006-07-14 17:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be with someone who loves you and is not afraid to tell you so,.
2006-07-14 17:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you can't...
maybe your relationship hasnt developed enough for love yet
good luck
2006-07-14 17:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by (NO) NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you
2006-07-14 17:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by blaaaaah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋