1. The most important thing is eye contact when flirting. This is really the one single golden rule of flirting! Sounds easy, but can initially be difficult to establish for longer than a second or two. So when you next go out, find a guinea pig to practice on! Once you have decided on your target, look directly at him/her, then look away and always accompany this look with a smile. If they seem not to have noticed you, look again and this time smile directly at him/her. At first this really will be hard but once you get a reaction you will find your confidence will increase.
2. Once they have noticed you it is worthwhile having a few lines prepared for when they come over. However, if this does not happen, despite what you thought was a good reaction to your earlier eye contact, why don't you try approaching him/her? It could be that they are feeling just as unsure as you, so it's better to try rather than wonder what might have been.
3. When you do get to talk to them, always remember to be pleasant and smile whilst flirting - this will help put the other person at ease and also gives the impression that you are relaxed, even if inwardly you are shaking with nerves!
~hope this helps. If you have more questions please do not hesitate to ask!
2006-07-20 13:09:37
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answered by Bon Bon 5
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Attracting a man with your eye's and the sciences that shows how and why it works.
Lets look at a small list of social scientists that did research on this including myself. Social Psychologists and Anthropologists, like Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Zick Rubin, Dr. Eckhard Hess, Dr. Joy Browne, Dr. David Givens, Dr. Emily Nagoski, Dr. Debby Herbenick at the Kinsey Institute, Lauren Slade founder of the universal College of Reflexology, Kerry Grow sex therapist, and many more.
Lets first talk some about the science behind making eye contact. How much eye contact does it take to imitate the feeling of falling in love. Scientist determined that, on average, when couples are talking they look at one another only 30 to 60 percent of the time. This is not enough to make the love chemistry to get a man charged up to attract and make him feel feelings of passion.
Dr. Zick Rubin produced the first psychometrically based scale to determine how much affection couples felt for each other. It is known as the Rubin's Scale.
Dr. Zick Rubin found that people who were deeply in love gaze at each other much more when talking and are slower to look away when someone intrudes in their world.
Dr. Rubin confirmed this through a trick experiment. He asked dating couples a long series of questions so he could first rate the pairs on how much they loved each other. The couples, unaware of their rating, were then put in a room and told, The experimenter will be with you shortly to start the experiment." Unbeknownst to them, that was the experiment. Hidden cameras recorded how much time the couples spent staring into each other's eyes. The higher the couple had scored on the first test, the more time they spent looking at each other. The less love felt for each other, the less time they made eye contact.
To give your Quarry the subliminal sense that the two of you are already in love, dramatically increase your eye contact while the two of you are chatting. Push eye contact up to 75 percent of the time or more if you want to get the passion gushing through his or her veins.
You must look right into his or her eyes if you want to excite those feelings of love. Not at eyebrows, the bridge of the nose, look right into eyes. Look right into the optic nerve behind the eyeballs.
You must make your eyes warm and inviting. Staring into the frigid eyes of a unemotional person does not incite passion.
Bedroom eyes Ethnologist have even named it the copulatory gaze. What makes your eyes sexy and inviting? Quite simply large pupils. Here's how to enlarge your pupils to make your eye pools of passion and love. Think about thoughts of sex, passion or love. Do this when you are having conversation. Do not look at anything negative or even think negative thoughts, this will cause your pupils to slap shut .
Eye contact is crucial. If you can't connect with eye contact, you can't connect.
2006-07-14 17:10:12
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answered by Anonymous
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eye contact with a nice smile and a gentle touch on the hand or shoulder
2006-07-14 17:04:34
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answered by sunshine25 7
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nice loving and sweet that show the other person that u think there great or hot or whatever and ur a nice fun girl to be with!!!
2006-07-14 17:02:53
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answered by hotloverxo328 3
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dont know how to flirt ,never leaned
2006-07-14 17:03:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Flattery. Lots and lots of flattery.
2006-07-14 17:04:03
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answered by bond_fan_001 2
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honesty so the chick has to be hot to be honest, best if no beer invovled.
2006-07-14 17:08:48
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answered by fl2stay 4
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intellectual conversation is a huge turn on to men,, men that have any sense
2006-07-14 17:02:40
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answered by annie 3
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simply staring at a guy...[even though i dont like him] so that his eyes would be stick unto me..and it felt grrreat!...hehehhe
2006-07-14 17:05:44
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answered by ? 2
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tell him that he is hot and he smells good that worked for me
2006-07-14 17:04:31
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answered by Anonymous
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