I love this girl to death. I wanna marry her. she wants the same, bu ther parents have got some issues. I just want to tell her that I am incomplete without her. she is on my mind every breath I take. I think I am gonna go crazy. thought of telling her to go against her family, but I cant ruin someone family for my own happiness. what to do dear lord what to do??
2006-07-14 16:32:07 · 4 answers · asked by Sheeno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very strange she is my age and that should be a good thing but they r saying the guy is supose to be few years older so he can take care of her better. bassically they r calling me imature, plus there is a cultural difference.
2006-07-14 16:39:29 · update #1
dude, i think you should just tell her! even though its against her family, you should just let her know how much she means to you. i mean, it doesnt hurt to let out your feelings to someone you love; and itll take something off your shoulders. maybe you can also talk with her parents, get to know them more? hope that helped.
2006-07-14 17:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say that - you don't ruin anyone's family. After all she also feels the same with you - getting married.
Also you have to think about marriage for you and her, not her family? Sometimes people say marriage is about marrying her family, but think at another level, you are marrying her for the rest of her life, it's between you and her personally. Family can't even stop this or stop you guys's true love...
You do watch Romeo and Juliet, right? If there is true love, family can't stop this, even this means death.
If she also feel the same feeling for you, and she loves you more than anything (that is her family), I am sure she will sacrifice losing her family to be with you, then staying with her family. Cuz I would. I would love my bf for anything and everything even if this means losing my family. But she has to feel this way for sure, if that's what she wants deep in her heart.
Love is pure, and true love can never be stopped. No one can!
Go with your heart, and also make sure that's exactly what she wants too. If it isn't then even being together is meaningless.
Love has to be so true, to go against her family.
I only date a guy that my parents go against him. But the bottom line is not parent's decision. THis is a 20th Century, parents can't stop true love. if you really love someone, you will do anything and everything for him or her, even mean sacrificing what you have. I really would do that. But this again depends on how she really feel for you, and the extend she would do to go so far for being with you.
2006-07-14 23:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Cherly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants the same thing you want, I say go for it. Hopefully her parents will see that you make her happy and come around eventually.
2006-07-14 23:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cloth on Bum, Breastmilk in Tum! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are her parents issues?
2006-07-14 23:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋