I think it is.
It seems like this is the newest trend. (The I / Me generation I suppose)
1. If the bride sent you an invitation, surely she knows your address
2. How hard is it to sent a few dozen cards, especially when each card represents an expensive gift
3. Three weeks and still no "Thank You Card", sent. Hmmm....
Makes me want to barely give a wedding gift, if any.
2006-07-14 16:24:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I wonder if, and when, the Thank You comes card comes, Will it be handwritten or Pre-Printed thank You...
2006-07-15 03:08:37 · update #1
Tacky. My mom and Matron wanted me to let them have the guests address their own envelopes at my shower last month and I completely refused and purposefully left the envelopes at home.
2006-07-14 17:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is acceptable for a baby shower because everyone understands how busy mothers are with new babies, but for a wedding shower? That would definately be on the tacky side. On the plus side, at least the return addresses would be hand-written and not an Avery label done with the home printer! LOL
2006-07-14 16:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd place my vote in the "tacky" column too. However, I've gotten thank you notes MONTHS after the wedding, even for shower gifts. Miss Manners would not be pleased, but there you have it.
2006-07-14 19:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were asked to fill out the card, I'd probably take the card with me and make the bride to be fret over losing the card.
Yeah, I know. That makes me no better. I'd reconsider the rsvp to the wedding ,too.
2006-07-14 16:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by shaker454 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am getting married in a few weeks, so I am going through all of this right now. In fact, my fiance has another bridal shower this weekend and I think this is super TACKY - she would never never do this.
2006-07-14 17:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by GretzkyMVP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeppers-sorry. I hope u will provide stamps. put out a guest book with an address spot.. try that. or get a new address book for when you are married and ask them to write their names in so you can keep in touch. maybe thats tacky too? clever, but tacky?? but its really not that hard to address your own envelopes and get their addys on your own. ask their address when you call to invite them.. its ok.
2006-07-16 04:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by turtles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tacky,in poor taste, not the place to have your guests to work-tacky is tacky no matter what the generation.
2006-07-14 16:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's tacky and tasteless
2006-07-14 17:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by exnavykds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is incredibly tacky. she/they have your address if they sent you an invite. so yea. that's just lazy
2006-07-14 18:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clever but tacky
2006-07-14 16:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by yelloerose07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋