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I feel so alienated from everyone else no one understands me. I have really big breasts and it bothers me when guys look at me. But no one knows that I'm 15 and it really bothers me when older guys try to hit on me. I feel like I had to grow up fast.

2006-07-14 16:11:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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That's no reason to be ashamed of yourself.You can't help how your body matured early.The ones who should be ashamed of themselves are the men that try to hit on you and boy who have mean things to say.Your body grew fast,you did not.You let people know that you are 15.,try not to wear clothes that are to revealing,that will help some.Be proud of who you are and what you look like.Do your best not to put yourself in any compromising positions.The reason i say that is because,men will try to get you to come with them,or get you onto there car.I'm sure you are a smart young lady and you know these things,it's just that some men won't care how old you are.They will treat you like a grown woman,and look only at your body not your age.Keep yourself safe and may God Bless you.

2006-07-14 17:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0 1

Don't be ashamed. Your body is just growing up fast doesn't mean you have to. One day it will all come together and you'll be happy/proud because of how you look. You may just feel like an odd ball because no one else you age is not big breasted. I really feel for you.

2006-07-14 16:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0 0

Don't be ashamed of yourself it isn't your fault that you have big breasts so just don't worry what other people say just be yourself and about the growing up fast thing I know what you are talking about I am tall for my age I get mistaken for like 3 to 4 years older than I actually am. CHEER UP YOU WILL BE OK! HANG IN THERE!

2006-07-14 16:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blue_eyes_25 2 · 0 0

Its okay, I had the same problem. DON'T BE ASHAMED! Your body is beautiful and you must keep that in mind(especially looking at small breast women) It could be hard at times but some men like that, but don't worry about that until your ready.(18+) Just tell the guys LEAVE YOU THE HELL ALONE! You have to demand respect from men, and don't let that bother you. Be honest about your age,Please don't ruin some ones life.

2006-07-14 16:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

No need to be ashamed, just know how to present yourself. If you present yourself like a lady you will be fine, if you present yourself otherwise you will be treated as such. If you're uncomfortable with your look and how you may come off to others try talking to your parents or other guardians about a possible breast reduction it worked for me.

2006-07-14 16:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ebonee 3 · 0 0

no you dont you just have to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, and there ways to disimulate your breasts like certain bras, but live your life at your age dont be in a hurry to grow up.
think that when u are older enough u can take advantage of this. but never feel ashamed everyone is beautiful in their own way...
just be happy!!!

2006-07-14 16:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by XSA16 2 · 0 0

i was that way when i was younger. i started my period the summer before 4th grade. i had boobs, a period the whole nine yards. i walked around with my head down and turned the side just enough to keep my face semi covered with my hair. i wanted to die, i was so embarrassed. i was the only one of my friends to develop like that and i felt i didn't fit in anywhere. now i am 25, i have two beautiful boys, i can hold my head high now cause those boobs and my earlier experiences with myself and just life in general that comes with growing up alittle faster has really come in handy...hang in there, your beautiful...don't ever forget that....and the next time an older guy hits on you just smile, hold your head up and say call me in about 3years !!!!

2006-07-14 16:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dont be embarrised me proud of what god blessed u with just stay focused on whats important in life such as school and family and as for those guys tell them to get a life.. look another direction because ur only 15

2006-07-14 16:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by okangeljenny23 2 · 0 0

I too was an early bloomer and sometimes I think that's why my father used to grab me from behind to squeeze my breast, at the age you are. Besides his sickness, it ruined my life as well as other members of my family, I still want a brest reduction at 43 yrs. old.

2006-07-14 16:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by tlcnc 2 · 0 0

Don't be ashamed. Just stay focused on school and making a life for yourself, and ignore those guys. In five years, you'll be happy to have them.

2006-07-14 16:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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