ok well it started at myrtle beach and my friend amanda broght her friend camille with our group well at first i wasn't sure about her but then i realized that me and her had ALOT in common and i really really really liked her ok here's the problem another one of my friends thought the same his name is tyler 1st off he has way more self confidense than i ever will and he probly looks better than i do so then i felt so sad it almost ruined my trip but im afraid if i tell camille i like her like her then she wont like me at all and she'll go to tyler and he is a good friend but if i tell tyler that i like her then he'll betray me go ahead and ask her out but its been less than a day and i already miss her i really think she is the one so who do i choose camille, tyler, or nither. help i need a real answer this is making me sad angry and frustrated.
2006-07-14 16:09:46 · 24 answers · asked by headbanger x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, you REALLY like this girl. Tyler doesn't sound like he is such a good friend if he would ask her out if you told him. So, forgetTyler. As for the girl, don't go telling her you like her when you hardly even know her. Get to know her better if you have a chance to. If you really like her and she seems to like you then tell her. Ifshe's the right one then, it will work out. If she goes out with someone else then she probably is not the one for you, at least, not for now. Don't obsess with one person and make it your world. There are many many fishes out in the sea if only you are brave enough to go out there and test the waters. Sounds like you are really young and not too confident. Learn ways to build your self-confidence by reading books or by learning more social skills and bring out that confidence. You have so many other girls to meet unless you live in a small rural town and you can't go anywhere else, which doesn't sound like your situation.The right girl is out there for you.
2006-07-14 17:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by c2t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even thought you and her have alot in common, as you say, don't rush yourself with her. Wait to see if she gives you a clue as to whether or not she is totally interested in you. Have patience. If you are afraid that your friend might get her first. Ask her out on a date to a movie. Take her somewhere public so she will feel much more appreciated. If she was chillin with you the whole time a myrtle beach. Then go ahead and ask her out. Tell her that since you and her had a good time at the beach, that you would like to enjoy her company out at a movie. Don't worry about your friend with the good looks, or his confidence. You have the same thing too. Don't belittle yourself. Because after all, you might have something in you that your friend could never have in him that attracted you to her in the first place. Try and see where this takes you. Be polite and patient.
2006-07-14 23:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Tyler isn't your friend if you think he will betray your confiding in him. So, I think you should ask Camille to go out. The thing is, you don't want it to be a 'date, date'. Do something fun in the daytime. Go to the beach, walk around the mall, get a smoothie. Something that allows you to be around her, get to know her. This will make her comfortable. It will also allow you to evaluate how she feels. Come on...you know when a girl is flirting or leading you on...Don't you? Certainly don't tell Camille "I like you." That so reminds me of grade school when you get that note to check yes or no if you like me. Work on your self esteem too. If you aren't happy with yourself what makes you think anyone else will be?
2006-07-14 23:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by want2know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't obsess over it. sometimes, the more you want something, the more it will elude you, like chasing a butterfly. But leave it alone a bit--just observe--and sometimes, it will come softly and sit on your shoulder. So it may be with Camille. Don't show you're too interested but casually talk of the things Camille likes. Ask her questions about herself, the things she likes, what she does. Don't be repetitious about it but just every now and then, when she comes around. And you'll be amazed at the results! Good luck!
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2006-07-14 23:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this world there is freedom of likeness. You judge yourself and think, who care you more, who like or loves you more. You can tell to the person whom you trust more and with whom you are really close. Don't go directly to Camille and tell her. You have to be patience and wait for some time. Common things does not mean that you have to be in relation but you can be friend with Camille and spend time with her. Then after ward tell your feeling to Camille.
Just try it once, it may work for you.
2006-07-14 23:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by SmartBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn this asap in life. You are not responsibable for whats happening in the other dudes life. You are you.
Seems like you have figured out how every single person feels. Stop trying to figure everything out. And just live your life.
It is up to the girl who she likes and why.
All you can be is who you are. She might like the bit of shyness in you. Don't use the word betralay if she and the other guy connect. The world doesn't revolve around you and your feelings.
If you feel connected to her, let her know it. She has no commitment to you and she can choose whom she pleases.
Please do take life so seriously. This is minor kid compared to what happens in life. Learn to roll with the punches and you will be more content.
Go for her if that is what you want
2006-07-14 23:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, my first rule is to give you the simple answer.
You snooze you lose. This is a lesson for you if Camile and Tyler already hooked up. If you really like the girl, I'd go for it regardless.
"Faint heart never won fair lady"
2006-07-14 23:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by silversurf88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. Be confident. Nice, confident men are way more sexy than Conceited confident men .. LOL. but it's true.. Stop doubting yourself.... Ask her out, period. If she says no then she wasn't the one for you.. but date other girls in the mean time, it'll help build your confidence.. there's double the women in the world than there are men. You're chances are high that you'll be fine no matter what happens.. Give yourself a limit of how much time you will allow her to occupy your thoughts then do something else to take up your time.
2006-07-14 23:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by lckuconn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her... because she might meet someone else when in the first place she liked u. if u tell her and she doesn't like u back then say that it's cool if she doesn't feel that way about u then say that u hope u that u and her are still good friends ..... if this tyler guy will ask the gurl u like when he finds out that u like that gurl then i wouldn't b worried about him...ask her bfore tyler does
2006-07-14 23:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would first just talk to her as mutual friends and not tell her how much you like her. Just spend some time getting to know her and being friends. If she receipricates then make a move. Just telling someone you like them does not mean that they like you are want to be serious. You can take the chance and ruin the friendship or you can take your time and allow it to progress. If you really like her just find ways to be around her and get to know her without ruining your friendships, and let time or her choose.
2006-07-14 23:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Inspire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋