I have been with the same man for almost three years and I just found out he was married and has a son. After all of this time why would he not just be honest with me? I am very open and easy to get along with.
2006-07-14 16:07:29 · 7 answers · asked by MLC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 20:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
He apparently doesn't know what 'honest' means....don't waste your time with a married man....there is no prize to be won...and if he does leave his wife and son for you, do you really want a liar? If he can hide a wife and son for almost 3 years, my guess he can hide alot more! Find someone else and build a relationship on trust...
2006-07-14 23:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is trying to hide something. To be with someone for three years and not mention having a child from a previous marriage isn't right. It sounds like it's time for you to dump him.
2006-07-14 23:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by maxinebootie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he do like you because you are very open and easy to get along with but you don't need him he is married with kids and you don't need to get in that so stop seeing him because you and her are going to get hurt by him.i sorry he did that to you.
2006-07-14 23:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie men are like that he may seen he had something good .but he's not good once a cheater always a cheater always rember that and never go back to him.and be careful to who you open your heart to .
2006-07-14 23:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you. Leave him.
2006-07-14 23:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy is really using u so it is better to leave him...
2006-07-14 23:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋