y do i miss my grandparents so much?

Question

they have been dead for 10yrs and they died when i was like 5yrs old and i feel like they were the only people that have ever truely loved me i feel like my parents dont even love me and i need them so much rite now what is wrong with me

umm and y did God take them away from the people that loved them the most

Answer 1

OH hunny you loved your grand parents so much and they were obviously a big part in your life. All chuildren big or small thinks there parents hate them but guess what we realy do love you and want the best for you in life. WE want you to grow strong and not take crapp from other people. Its ok to miss them but keep your memories close in your mind and heart they will never leave you.They are a part of you. I used to pray to the lord when i was kid and then tell him that this prayer was special cause i needed to talk to my granddaddy and i did. God doesnt take them away from us but take them from the harm and pain that they endured here on earth and they are at peace and happy and watching you grow into a beatiful young lady. I always know when my granddaddy is listening ans watching cause i will tell my kids stories of my growing up with him and i will be at peace , you will find the same thing. The missing never goes away but you will find peace if you remember and talk to them in your mind or in prayer.Keep smiling and look up in the sky and tell them how much you love them and one day you will see them again.

Answer 2

I know how you feel (well sort of). My grandpa got really sick about 5 years ago. So my family and I brought him down to Florida to live with us. Then he died a few months later. It was weird because I didn't really cry very much when it happened, but about a year or two later, I realized that he was actually gone, and would never come back. I think in your case, you have realized that you love your grandparents and that you relied on them more than you thought. And with your parents, what do you mean they don't love you? Just, pray and tell your grandparents what you are going through. I did that, and I don't know what happened, but everything seemed to be better. I hope this works, and you know where to contact me if you need anymore help! =]

Answer 3

I miss my grandmother greatly! She died 18yrs ago. SHe was like a mom to me. She did take care of me. So I think you may have had grandparents that loved you a lot and you knew and felt it even that young. The first 7 yrs in a person's life is when all emotions and final personality is set on stone nearly. So if you spent a lot of time with yr grandparents or and you felt their love and now maybe you dont have always all that love aroudn you, it is natural for you to miss yr grandparents even now.
YOu want to have love around you.

Nothing is wrong with you. Know this, God does not leave His children stranded on their own. First thing you need to do is say a prayer from your heart to God. ASk him to help you deal with your feelings and how to cope with them.

God is an awesome God, and He loves us very much but we need to listen and give HIM the chance to explain as time goes by the plan He has for you.

If you have parents that are unapproachable, seek an "aunt or uncle" somebody with a parental figure type of personaility or one who is a parent. Dont loose hope for yours though.

Talk to your parents and tell them you are confused because you feel they do not love you. That is if yr parents are not abusig you. If they are do not tell them taht.

You are going thorugh major hormonal changes too By what you said you are about 15yrs old? A lot of chemical changes in the brain do affect how you feel and seee the world around you.

So whatever is going on gets blown up in our minds 10 times its size , if I explained myself right i hope so.

Your body will be going through many changes for he next few years, so just be patient, don't repress yr feelings and accept them actually. YOu have valid reasons Im sure for feeling let down. Try to explore where and why and then addrss the issue without making a problem for you.

I also felt my parents did not love me that much when I was your age. I actually wanted to run away but I did not and waited then I got married young. Perhaps one of your parents is not being fair with you or yells at you much, or is never happy with hyou no matter what you say do or want. If that is the case, that sort of parent will never change. So you have to change so that you can enjoy life more and not feel less loved.

If you are trully not lvoed by yrparents, seek some help from your immidiate relatives,t hose whom you trust only. And see if you can move in with them for a little while, maybe that will show your parents taht they are doing something wrong. But this is a drastic measure that I do not recommend unless you have run out of all th eother options.

Things will get better. Enjoy your age in the time being! It's wonderful to be a teenager, it never happens again so think of that too. And also think that parents we are not perfect. No human is.

I will say a prayer fo ryou.

Answer 4

Because grandparents are just special, they usually treat you well on holidays and your birthday, there usually easier to get a long with because you have one thing in common. “Complain about how your parents act aka there children acted!” And can make jokes to your parents with the new information you’re armed with.

But really it’s important to remember them all; we’re here for only a short time. It may seem that God has taken your grandparents away, but that’s because they served the most important purpose! To make sure you have the memory of how they treated you, and when the time comes to have your family, you will know how to show the same love down the road!

Answer 5

god gave them to earth and takes them back when he needs them and i think it is because u r with ur parents all the time and if u have siblings u do feel like u r not loved at times and ur grandparents can show it so much more i ttly know how u feel my grandpa died when i was in 4th grade i cried 4 days i was so mad at the world but i know that he is in a better place and maybe if u can try to go to there grave if they wer barried an djust sit there and talk to them it makes u feel so much better or if they were cremated and spread go to where they let there ashes are and sit and feel the wind hope i helped

Answer 6

Probably because they r family and u love them and they will alwayz have a place it ur heart its ok 2 miss them even though u was little u still can miss them and think they are the only ppl that truley loved u but a lot of ppl love u!!! My grandma died at least a yr ago and i miss her a lot and i only saw her a couple times a month and i miss her a lot and think about her all the time and wonder does she miss us is she watching over me is she happy in heaven is she with us at b-day partys and x-mas partys and get 2gethers . ps. ur family friends and parents love u

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with you precious..Grandparents are given to us by God to LOVE, DIRECT and FILL the GAP that comes along where our own parents FAIL us. I can relate I... loved my grandparents soooo much like you. They were next to God in my eyes. There was so much dysfunction in my childhood and they were my Pillers of stregenth in our lives. They lived the example God gave and showered us with pure LOVE. I miss my grandpa to and grandma. In my mothers side it was her dad that was the BOMB (awesome) and in my dads side it was his mom she was the BOMB (awesome). They can love you with compassion because what ever your parents are going through ..your grandparent have already been there done that ect and have much more experience in life and trials and are more secure in thier life and have more PEACE and you can feel it rub off onto you. Yes grandparents are awesome go ahead and miss them remember them cherish the memories you shared with them.dont let anyone take that away from you ever. I still call my grandpa when I cry and I am a grown woman. God Bless you. Thank Him for the time he gave you with them. I am sure they are looking out for you still from above..talk to them they are there for you I'm sure as mine are too.

Answer 8

Because Love lives into eternity...and they really loved you; and you loved them. They didn't really leave you..they simply changed their form from a physical one to a spiritual one and they want you to be happy. You can talk to them anytime you want to; and they will hear you. It is the last time you truly felt loved for who you are...so they gave you a very lovely gift that will remain with you for the rest of your life. You now know you are and were loved...and you will have it to share with someone that feels the way you do. How special is that? So be happy, you aren't alone, and get to the business of living your life. God Speed.

Answer 9

Nothings wrong with you. You just need a caring adult to put their arms around you and tell you everythings going to be all right. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. Things will get better. Your at a very confusing age- stuck somewhere between childhood and adulthood. Hang in there.

Answer 10

Hey nothing wrong with missing them I'm 52 years old mine are dead 30 years and i miss them with all my heart. Just think about the questions you wanted to ask them some how you will get your answer. Good Luck