Y is it that he didn't RSVP for 2 instead of 1 so I can meet his friend as well. We really don't do much together already and I think this just proves that we really don't have as much as I think. We have been together for 7 years (on and off) but mostly together. I love him and I want our love to grow but I really think he needs to grow up. his explanation really souned as if he didn't know he should have asked me to go. I am really getting tired of him because I explain things to him on how we can make this relationship good for us both but he really doesn't listen to me. I am considering finding someone who really wants to be with me, but I don't want to give up on someone I have been with for so long.Oh I forgot to add we have a daughter an one on the way.
2006-07-14 15:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be pissed too. He should have RSVP for 2 people.
It sounds to me like you are unhappy in the relationship. If he's not willing to treat you and your child(ren) like a family then maybe you should get out. He can still have a part in his childrens lives but at the same time you will be free to find someone who really loves and cares for you.
Good luck to you and your children.
2006-07-14 15:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think your reading too much into this and you should just relax a bit . all that you've said does not mean he doesn't love you , u are the mother of his child/children. men are funny sometimes , they don't always show love the way we want , but do show it in other ways that's even more meaningfull , such as if another guy tried to move in on you , I'm sure your man would have something to say about that.
2006-07-14 15:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could recommend you suck it up and ignore approximately him as ultimate you may. the way I see it is in case you do no longer invite him, you would be aggravated besides with the aid of his non-end texting and calls (i'm assuming she does not have the coronary heart to instruct the telephone off), and in the event that they have been jointly 5 years, possibility is they would be jointly for a mutually as, and you are going to could desire to deal with him in specific situations besides. you understand you want your chum there, and you'd be having plenty relaxing even this loser isn't waiting to wreck it. somewhat in case you refuse to enable him.
2016-11-02 02:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 7 years I would be really pissed if my b/f didnt take me to a friends wedding, girl you need to find a new and improved man because you're dealing with a boy. I would be furious.
2006-07-14 15:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by rodaerc06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can be angry.
I just went through this same thing. This guy I've started dating 2 months ago - had a freaking party at his house and didn't invite me!!! PO!!!!!
He should be considerate of your feelings, especially after 7 years.
2006-07-14 15:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bounce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's on a totally different page as you
2006-07-14 15:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have a right to be mad, not only at him, but at his friends as well, they knew you two were together. it is absolutely rude to invite a friend and not their significant other, even if their not your friends. it's called class
2006-07-14 15:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by thelogicalferret 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he get a guest on the invitation?
2006-07-14 15:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be upset but just remember that his friends arent always gonna be your friends. take it from me i know
2006-07-14 15:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋