Well let me start by my sister out of nowhere calls me. And had the nerve to put my ex boy friend on the phone mind you she lives in Florida. At one point of my life I believed that he was the one. but turned out to be very abusive so I got out of dodge. But I found out that she is now seeing him what the h*ll I said to myself. I was so da*n mad how could she? As my grand mother once told me that d!ck had no conciouse. Is it wrong of me to be upset at her or at both of them? I was seeing this prick for about 4 years. I have moved on with my life but wow what a blow to hear her say things I know only he knows. He shared our memories with the biatch he's just a jerk. And she's a bigger jerk for being with him. She knows how I felt at one time for this jerk.
2006-07-14 14:47:52 · 23 answers · asked by LIZA P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What she did to you is unforgivable...I would write her out of my life. I've done that with my own sister. It was the best decision I ever made. Just because they're family does not mean you have to endure their bullsh*t. You have a right to be angry and what she did was inappropriate, insensitive and wrong. My guess is that he's only dating her to be closer to you. It's just his way of recapturing what you once had. Just turn your back on the two of them and walk away, never looking back, and know this...You still have power over this bastard...Your sister is just a stand in for you.
2006-07-14 14:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have a right to be angry with both. Your boyfriend of that many years should be off limits to your sister. Your sister should also realize that any guy who is sharing your intimate details and secrets is going to do the same to her in the long run. Your ex is pretty immature for having to bond with your sister by sharing secrets from your relationship. Just be happy that you got rid of the loser while you could. You obviously made a smart decision to move on. As for your sister and the scummy ex...they deserve each other considering they both are treating you badly. What goes around comes around and they'll get theirs eventually.
2006-07-14 14:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand completely why this would upset you but you must remember something. He is nobody. She is your sister and no matter what happens she will always be your sister. No man is worth breaking up 2 sisters. Unfortunately, she has become involved with someone who is obviously not good for anyone and this is too bad but....you must not allow an *** such as he is to come between you and your sister. Someday, he will be gone, but she will ALWAYS be your sister.
2006-07-14 14:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by amomentssunlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk still trying to get you upset. Looks like he is doing it too.
I might suggest that either you warn your sister that he is abusive, or let her find out for herself. It's all up to you.
You're sister really knows how to pull your chain doesn't she.
2006-07-14 14:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that some lowdown shi! but she is your sister and I'm sure you left him for being abusive so let her deal with his bullshi4 but let her know that it's fuc7ed up and how would she feel if she was in your shoes but after the madness she still will be your sister just keep your men away from her or just let her have the abusive ones and let her get beat up
2006-07-14 14:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be mad. I don't have a sister but if I did I would never go out with one of her ex's.
2006-07-14 14:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb sister that has no respect 4 u whatsoever
2006-07-14 14:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister knew how he done you when you and him was together. And now she is rubbing it in your face that she is with him now. What goes around comes around. So when your sister calls you letting you know how he done her..........be there for her. Guess you thought that I was going to say something else....well she is your sister.
2006-07-14 16:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur sis really is retarded for doing ths 2 u and u all u need 2 do is jus move on because he has
2006-07-14 14:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur X doesnt like ur sister.
ur X is using ur sister to get to you.
ur X is trying to get back at you.
ur X wants to get revenge.
ur X wants to make you mad and jealous.
there.
2006-07-14 14:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by SJK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋