2006-07-14 14:41:35 · 32 answers · asked by Jas M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beat her to it
2006-07-14 14:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her ok and dont ask her to stay and see what happens. Give her some time to herself and see if she tries to contact you. First of all if she says "Im going to break up with you!" you say "well this is a real dumb reason but ok!" and just give her some time to calm down and try to contact you. If she dosent it is over and you didnt need the headache in the first place. If she calls dont make it hard on her just tell her you are glad she called and move on. When people are mad at each other they say things they think will hurt the other person.
2006-07-14 14:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try saying, "Okay, if I make you this unhappy, perhaps breaking up is the best thing to do." This is probably something she wouldn't expect and if she goes along with it, then you will know it wasn't meant to be and you won't be wasting your time with someone who doesn't appreciate you. But if she begs you back, obviously she has some issues that need to be worked out between the two of you. Best of luck!
2006-07-14 14:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Miss U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes giving you warning signals. If you dont already know, find out why.
Somethings wrong and if you want to be with her, let her know what it would mean to lose her. If she doesn't genuinely share your feelings you have to move on but if not let her know you want to work through it.
2006-07-14 14:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by SASHA123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is WHY does she do that? Every time you fight? She just wants you to give in to her. Tell her if that's what she REALLY wants, then so be it. Observe her reaction. Or tell her you don't appreciate her doing that all the time. If she cares about you she will stop.
2006-07-14 14:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the biotch, evidently she doesn't care about you so why should you care if you are with her. what r u ding that makes her wanna leave u? if shes threaten to leave you everytime u turn around just think about what its gonna be like if u marry her.
2006-07-14 14:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by tracy_b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if someone you're with keeps threatening to break it off, then he/she isn't worth your time. Call their bluff and say "go ahead, break it off and get out of the house." Then we'll see how quick they are to break it off.
2006-07-14 14:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her sorry a**. No need to have a threat hanging over your head everytime.
2006-07-14 14:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Marvin Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she your girlfriend? Why is she threatening to break up with you? If it comes out of the blue, get out now while it's cheap.
2006-07-14 14:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by brightpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a million great chicks out there. Don't worry so much about one who doesn't worry about you. Be yourself, even if she leaves. You'll be better off, even if it takes awhile for you to realize it.
2006-07-14 14:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her on it. Next time she threatens you, let her go ahead and do it - odds are she won't. Also, threatening is a form of manipulation. Don't let her manipulate you!!
2006-07-14 14:45:02 · answer #11 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋