I like this girl and asked her out to see a movie with me and some friends that day. She couldn't go but she asked me to come over to her house. So after the movie I went to her house and I met her and her mother. I talked to her mother just a bit, and then the girl I like showed me pictures of her when she was little. She's 16 years old and I'm 16 as well.
I heard from her friends that she has a boyfriend who is in Korea. I'm American, she's Korean, but we both live in the Philippines. She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend though.
Do you think she could like me? She flirts back with me, texts me, and she asked me to come over to her house and I met her mom. Do you think she likes me despite this boyfriend in another country? Or could she just be leading me on? Her friends tell me "Chase, she likes you... but she loves her boyfriend" Is it possible that I can get anywhere with her?
2006-07-14 14:28:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is a picture of me so you kinda get an idea what I look like:
http://www.myspace.com/neonbase
2006-07-14 14:29:37 · update #1
Ask her if she has a boyfriend. What she's doing can easily be how she views a friendship.
2006-07-14 14:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would say don't make such a big deal of the fact that you met her mother. For Americans, that is a big deal and you don't do that unless you like or are already in a relationship with someone. However in many parts of the world, that doesn't mean anything: everybody meets the mother whether you like them or not.
Second, talk to her about it. Say that you've heard she has a boyfriend and see what she says. If she asks why you're asking, that's your cue to say "well, I was hoping you didn't, because I really like you." Take it from there.
2006-07-14 21:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has the other guy been in Korea? A week, a month?How long has he been her boyfriend?
I would answer these questions before I would make a decision.
2006-07-14 21:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and the fact that she hasn't told you that she has a boyfriend speaks volumes. Be open with her tell her how you feel, who knows maybe she feels the same way.
2006-07-14 21:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she likes you. That boyfriend is miles away and she's not going to see him anytime soon. Meanwhile, you're right there. Whether or not she thinks she loves him, she is likely to forget about him and be with you. Good luck!
2006-07-14 21:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Do not lie and ask her about having a boyfriend... that is not something that we like to share... a girl and tow boys?
2006-07-14 21:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by vahucel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriend is in another country? Sounds made up. If she is flirting with you she likes you. I say go for it.
2006-07-14 21:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Spike Spiegel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya but i think u should really see if she has a boyfriend or shell try to two time u
2006-07-14 21:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by iluvdereq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Tell her that long distance relationships don't work, then take her away with your amazing charming abilities :D
2006-07-14 21:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by POOF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be friends with her,see where that goes. Don't rush into anything,or you'll be sorry.
2006-07-14 21:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋