If I only want a man w/$$ I'm shunned & called a goldigger,if a man wants to only date a HOT girl its ok w/ u?

Answer 1

A golddigger, prostitute and a woman who deliberately gets pregnant by lying to a guy about 'being on the pill' (and 'you don't need a rubber tonight, I am using birth control' in order to force him to pay child support or marry her because he makes a lot of money and she hates work)-WELL, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME THING, NOW AREN"T THEY?

Answer 2

Fact from the fiction, truth from the diction. Most relationships have shallow roots to begin with. Usually launched on some notion of "chemistry". All it is is a deepend form of a adolescence infatuation, they want to call it a crush. there is no real love there because love is a creating thing. It is built day by day, and moment by shared moment. So, since you are just marking time in a sense, I can not see why you can't come away with a diamonds, cars, jet trips etc. Some how when the thought of money comes into play, specially if that is the direct reason for your attraction and involvement with the guy. People want to balk. If you were just some boy crazy girl who hopped in the sack with many men because they were cute, not that you did it at the drop of a hat. People would hardly say a thing. But let you decide to be with a man for 12 years or more because he was kicking down, and it was clear so long as the money flowed, your ship would not pull anchor. You are a gold digger. Be it concert tickets, trinkets, cruises, you are swapping it for money. The money may not come in the form of $10s and $20s, but it is there. If I were rich. I might seek a girl like you if I wanted the companionship, somebody around, with out the permanent attachment. Because I know why you are there and you know why you are there so there is not BS being played. And when it goes south, you move on. But then, so long as he looks like a Calvin Klein model he can be as broke as the flea that came in on the church mouse, but so long as you can equate yur infatuation with love, girls will hop on thier back and give it up for free and they will say "you go girl" Then they can pay for dinner and his cell phone bill.

Answer 3

I have never heard of a man only wanting to date a hot girl. Sure it might impress your friends and maybe attract every woman that sees you with a hot girl, but I'm sure that he wants more- unless by date you mean have sex. And NO it's not OK w/me. Judge not a book by it's cover- and call a spade a spade, gold-digger! Have a little pride and self respect and go get a real job!!! Your looks will fade when you hit 30, and nobody tips the wrinkly , sagging, gold-digging stripper... but I'm sure you know this.

Answer 4

I think women who go after men for their money have a very low esteem problem. Guys who go after hot chicks, are only thinking with the wrong head and very seldom settle down with a hot chick.
But it is a disgrace to all genders if your only after a person for their money.
Life is to be valued and cherished. No amount of money can give you self satisfaction and taking someone elses money shows you have a lot to learn about love and will end up a lonely sole.
Best of luck to you :)

Answer 5

When you say you "want" a man with $$, you don't say whether for an overnight thing or a life long thing. Either way, it's dumb and shallow, and sure to bring trouble. If a man wants to date only "HOT" girls, I can guarantee you he'll get what he went looking for, and it's not all just hot, sloppy, passionate sex, only he was too stupid to know that. I too was one of those stupid men, who just so happened to once meet up with one of those shallow women. It was one of the worst relationships in my life. Don't follow our paths. Be more intelligent. God Bless you.

Answer 6

If a woman wants a man with money then divorces him for the bizarrest of reasons...she is called a golddigger...men are called gold diggers too...look at Larry Fortenski who married Elizabeth Taylor after they both left rehab....A hot girl for a man ...I would want a good lookn man too...why would I want a man that looks shabby??????

Answer 7

I see this as a case of you both getting out of each other what you want. You want a man with money and he wants a hot date for sex !!!!!!!!!!!!

You can't expect a sensible man to throw money out on a hot date, and not get some thing out of it !!!!!!! Not all men are stupid as well as women. You are a perfect match

Answer 8

Well, who goes out to look for date and says I'm going to go look for an ugly person? Everyone is looking for someone who is initially attractive. It's just human nature to be attracted to attractive people. You're looking specifically for money, so that makes you go on a definite precondition...

Answer 9

There's no double standards you are a gold digger and he's shallow. You are made for each other! But you can't be a fat golddigger that's a turnoff!

Answer 10

Call it what it is,your basically prostituting yourself and he's buying a good looking piece.If your both happy with that arrangement all the power too you.