Here's the thing guys: he has a good physique but where his face is concerned, on a scale of 1 to 10 I'll give him a -10, yet at the same time there is something strikingly attractive about it all? Any ideas, please?
2006-07-14 14:11:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all relationships are based on physical attraction - whether its a pretty face, a killer body, 6 pack abs, 38dd bosoms, long slender sexy legs, a smile that lights the night, biceps that can't be contained in any normal garment. It's all physical - people like to act as though we've evolved and look to someting more such as the inner person - b.s. if you're not attracted physically your not hooking up with that man or woman.
2006-07-14 14:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To start with yes.
I know that sounds kind of shallow but u don't want to be seen with an unattractive person.
I look at physical appearance first. Then u get to know the person and if they aren't as attractive personality wise then they aren't worth my time.
Their is someone for everyone. Everyone has their own opinon on what is hot and what is not. Based on that you pick someone start to date and then decide if the relationship is going to work out or not.
Back to the question, no relationships shouldn't be based entirely on physical attraction, but it is a good place to start.
2006-07-14 22:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by dkong242003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER base any relationship on looks alone. Flings for looks may be ok if that is your thing but appearance is guaranteed top change with time. That washboard ab will get softer. That hair will thin and grey. That striking face will wrinkle up. It is best to base a relationship on what is inside. Of course initial attraction will make it easier for you to see what is inside maybe but be aware that physical appearance is fleeting.
2006-07-14 21:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by felisuncia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I'm immediately reminded of actors James Woods, and Liam Neeson, and other ugly-hotties.
My x looked and was built like a Greek god, but after 8 years of neglect, he became the ugliest man on the earth.
I'm now with a skinny not so handsome older guy, and he's so romantic, I'm blind to his bald head and pot belly. (well, almost tee hee).
When they have that "something" it never goes away like looks do. Sean Connery is still hot at 400 years old.
Take if from my personal experience, the great looking guys are not always fun to be with....
go for HOW a guy treats you, if you want to be happy.
And for the guys, my Daddy had a great piece of advice concerning selecting a wife:
"Looks don't last - cookin do."
;p
stw
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2006-07-14 21:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many like,love or want someone cause they are hot or cute. But what really matters is what is on the inside of that person. Looks dont mean any thing if they dont have a good heart and soul. If they are sweet and kind. Make you happy and is a alround great guy what does it matter.
2006-07-14 21:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Facial symetry has a powerful effect on romance, at least initially.
But you'll find this won't take you far. Believe it or not, more subtle factors like pheremones (those chemicals we extrude to attract the opposite sex) can actually have a stronger and more long-lasting effect. Some believe pheremones contain genetic information that allow us to select a suitable mate.
2006-07-14 21:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical appearance also includes the face. the intial meet up is all about physical appearance so the answer to your question is yes.
people are going to say it's about personality and the inside that count and that's true. But would you talk to hot muscular guy first or a fat guy first?
I believe the reality of it is the hot muscular guy would get your attention before the fat guy.
Jack Black or Brad Pitt? the choice is yours?
2006-07-14 21:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes looks does not make a relationship it is the character of both people and if he makes you feel good about yourself and knows how to treat a lady why not? but only you know what you are looking for but me personally its easy for me to forgive a good looking face than an ugly one i mean but the main thing to find in a mate is friendship cause in the long run a friend will allways be there.
2006-07-14 21:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No physical appearance is only part of it, you should look at his personality, where his heart and the feelings a person has. Respect and everything, Im sure he's fine *** lookn and all and its a turn on but look at the inside of a person also . Look at the whole package.
2006-07-14 21:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by karen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a relationships should not be based on physical appearance only.
2006-07-14 21:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremiah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋