I dont want a broke man to raise any future kids we may have and I want to live in a nice home so of course I am going to go after a man with money.
Golddigger is the wrong word, I think its looking for the best man.
2006-07-14 13:54:56 · 17 answers · asked by DEEDEE Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with being a golddigger (ie; old rich man, young hot woman), they have something you want and you have something they want. It's like a business transaction, only with a relationship.
2006-07-14 13:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You would not be a golddigger you just don't want to mess with a broke man (Thanks Kanye). But money is not everything. You don't want to end up in a nice home with nice kids and your man is a total jerk. And some great guys don't have a lot of money now but will have money later.
2006-07-14 21:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by GirlieGirl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not trying to be with a man for love, you're trying to be with a man because of money. Now if you were to be in love with the man and he just happened to have money there is a difference.
Girls that do this usually think that their men have money but most of the time, he has debt. Then they end up broke and more than likely alone with kids.
2006-07-14 20:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Golddigger is the wrong word. You want a man who has it together. Cause if he can't take care of his own it is obvious that he wont be able to take care of a baby.
You dont need 2 babies in the household my dear.
2006-07-14 20:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A golddigger is someone who goes after a man just to use up his money. That's pretty wrong...
2006-07-14 20:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you bringing to the table ?
What do you have to offer a man who makes a ton of money that can have any golddigger chick he wants ?
Too many random chicks out there want the best not realiing that men want the best too. Being cute is not good enough anymore.
2006-07-20 16:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ain't Not Cool 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Golddigger is absolutely not the word. You dont need to get a rich guy, just somebody who is financially okay. All women want you want, so youre not alone and definitely not a golddigger. In my opinion, I think those are good qualities you want for a future.
2006-07-14 21:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What's wrong with it is the assumption that it's someone besides your own self's responsibility to provide for you once you become an adult. If you want a nice lifestyle and all the benefits of money, do what you need to do to be self sufficient and provide these things for yourself.
2006-07-14 21:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Justsayin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a gold digger, if you want to have kids and have a life with somebody with money it is OK. The gold digger is deceiving, back stabber, with the man Only for his money, and she will take as much as she can, can't be trusted
2006-07-14 21:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes sense to me. It's been a natural desire for women since the caveman era; to select the best provider. Just don't lie to the guy and tell him the relationship is all love. Get it. Good.
2006-07-14 21:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by NOIR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋