when they are with a women (like brag about how much they make) then say they dont want golddiggers?
2006-07-14 13:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by DEEDEE Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way they can get attention low self esteem. I keep my money in the bank which forces a girl to like one of my other qualities.
2006-07-14 13:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are bragging, they really don't have that much.
My boyfriend is a Railroader for 35 years and he is loaded. You would never know it though because he acts like he is getting ready to starve to death. He uses coupons when we go out on dates. He took his sons out to have some Burger King and didn't buy them a pop or even a water with their burgers and fries because it cost too much. They sat at the table and ate with nothing to drink. I was so mad.
He shops at bargain bins and uses coupons all the time. He saves the soap and shampoos from the motels he stays in on the railroad to use at home. He is such a pennie pincher its aggrivating. When we go to Mcdonalds with his coupons, he gets a refill on my pop and his pop and takes it home to stuff in the fridgerator for work the next day. If he didn't have such a sweet personality, I would have dissed him a long time ago.
He pretends like he doesn't have anything. What a crock.
2006-07-14 21:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys make money. The ones that brag about how much they make are making up for their "short comings". Or they don't know how to keep a girl interested in them long ehough for them to realize that the guy is just another slum of the earth. Just ignore them.
2006-07-14 20:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to smile when I read this one; this has not been my experience at all.
Neither my husband, his associates, MY associates, or just about anyone else I have contact with acts that way...and, we're... ah, very comfortable.
The only people I've known to act this way are insecure, and have only recently started making anything.
My advice: don't date people like that. They are insecure about money, but also, in the end, everything else. Find someone who's at peace with who he is...AND what he makes.
2006-07-14 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably not truly loaded with cash, they want that appearance. Most people who have a ton of cash do everything they can to keep it a low profile. It attracts the wrong kind of attention, like gold diggers, IRS, crooks.
2006-07-14 20:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rare Indigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want a girl to take his money but he wants a girl with the body and the sexual consience of a goldigge. None. He also thinks it will impress you. Tell him that only works with hookers. Maybe he'll beleive it.
2006-07-14 20:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually do that because they are a jerk at nature and like to brag or they are trying to fill a hole in their life with possesions or attention from others and think from money can fill that hole
2006-07-14 21:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by hacker7020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gives them a sense of control. Pull out your own and watch them glare. Haha...
2006-07-14 21:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do good looking girls want to dress all sexy and stuff and then get pissed when guys are looking at them?
2006-07-14 21:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by T****A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! It's crazy....oh well, fixin to count my cash...it'll take me awhile, talk to ya later...lol j/k!
2006-07-14 20:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋