he says he loves me a lot but i keep hearing stuff that hes sleeping with my best friend and i have confronted him and her about it and they both say no. what do i do without breaking up with him because i know that i will never find any1 as good as him? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 13:33:43 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU REALLY DON'T NEED TO PUY UP WITH ANYONES BULLSH!T!!!!!!
FIRST OF ALL,IF YOU ARE HEARING THAT YOUR BF IS SLEEPING WITH YOUR FRIEND AND YOU ARE HEARING IT FROM OTHER PEOPLE THEN DON'T JUST RUN WITH THAT.
THAT IS HEARSAY.
BUT IF YOU TRULY FEEL THAT THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING,JUST SNOOP ON THEM.
DON'T LET THEM KNOW ANY OF YOUR SUSPISIONS.
THAT WAY(IF THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING)YOU'LL HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF CATCHING THEM IN THE ACT.
IF YOU LET THEM KNOW YOU ARE ON TO SOMETHING,THEY WILL TRY TO HIDE IT MORE CAREFULLY.
AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST,IF YOU DO FIND OUT THAT HE'S CHEATING ON YOU,DUMP HIM!!!!!!
HE IS NOT WORTH IT.
WHY PUT UP WITH BEING JEALOUS,SUSPICIOUS,THAT IS WAY TOO MUCH STRESS.
THERE ARE WAY TOO MANY GOOD GUYS OUT THERE IN THE WORLD.
BUT REMEMBER,FIND OUT IF IT'S TRUE BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING ELSE.
2006-07-14 13:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by PG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are wrong on two parts. First she is not your best friend or even a good friend if she knowingly sleeps with your boyfriend or even romances him. Second, in time, you will find so many more boys better than him that you will one day look back and wonder how you could have been so foolish. Life doesn't end at 18 and after High School it begins. Look around at those older than you. How many marry their High School Sweetheart or even High School acquaintances. You will meet so many more guys in college and after High School that will make this guy look like such a looser. If you have to give it up to compete with someone then your relationship isn't that good to begin with and has no respect.
My advice is tell your boyfriend that he can have your "not" best friend and your "not" best friend that she can have him and that you think you'll concentrate on being the best beautiful person that you can be and one day someone who is worth you time will see that same beautiful person and love you truly. You will also find a friend that knows that friendship means you don't go trying to steal or have sex with your best friend's boyfriend. Remember look at older folks and ask them how many are dating guys they went to High School with? You will see not many. The reason? You find out there or so many more guys out there and they will come competing for you. You do deserve better and you need to convince yourself of that. I promise there will be others but this guy isn't worth your time. You have infatuation not love for this person and you get over that as you find better.
2006-07-14 13:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be kidding right? You already know down deep that he is cheating on you with your friend. Doesn't sound perfect to me,at all. He,wouldn't let you have any self doubt,but he is and why. He likes to see you insecure,and why because he doesn't care. Love is thrown around way to much these day's. I,love pizza. I love that show. I love the ocean,see what I'm saying. You,mentioned that you will never find anybody as good as him,that is true. YOU will find somebody BETTER than him. Have a good day,and Good luck.
2006-07-14 13:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Boyfriend was perfect as you mention. He would not be cheating on you. Have you any hard evidence other than what people tell you about him sleeping with your best friend ?
Trust your gut instincts and take it from there as you alone will know what to do. Remember Aids and other forms of Sexually Transmitted diseases are real nigh mares, so take all that into the equation in deciding what to do.
2006-07-14 13:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he is that good then why is he cheating on you?! Hellow !! He's SLEEPING with your BEST FRIEND!
Just Dump the bastard!
You'll find a better guy who will really love you and not cheat you and treat you badly. Life is not that short and there are a lot of fish in the sea. So start fishing...
And as for you "Best friend"...well I dont know how you can call her Best friend, unless if you like sharing everything with your best friend, including your boyfriend.
The Ball is in your court..
2006-07-14 13:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you're stuck on keeping a guy that doesn't respect you there are bigger questions that need answering in your life. Show yourself the respect that he isn't and ditch the loser (providing the rumors are coming from a reliable source and you're just about certain he is cheating). If he's a cheater he definitely isn't the best there is, there is FAR better out there. Wish the two of them good luck and move on, you can do better in both relationships.
2006-07-14 13:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Damaila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust the source of the information, I'd say get rid of BOTH your boyfriend and your best friend. Someone who cheats is NOT a prize and is far from perfect. Trust has got to be in there somewhere.
2006-07-14 13:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you listening to unsubstantiated gossip? Stop and think about where these rumors are coming from. Could it be that they are coming from someone who is jealous of you and your perfect boyfriend? Is someone trying to break the two of you up? Has your boyfriend ever given you any reason not to trust him? If he is a perfect as you say, then try to find the source of the rumors first.
2006-07-14 13:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 11:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's so perfect about him if you think he's cheating on you with your best friend? You're the one that sounds perfect.
You will have to take their words for it but that doesn't mean that you should let your guard down. Until you can catch them, it's your word against theirs. But believe this, what goes on in the dark eventually comes to the light. Bide your time and the truth shall be shown to you and you will see your boyfriend and your best friend for who they truly are.
2006-07-14 13:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋