If the money's right.
2006-07-14 13:27:52
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answer #1
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answered by joker45693 3
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The age factor.
I will be careful how to say things here for I really am trying just to pass on what I see wrong and right.
My mother in law is almost 80, I think she's 79 or about to be she lost my fahter in law 2yrs ago, not that she cared much for him anyway she never did. One year after he had died, she had complete control of all the properties and money and what not that should have partly gone to his kids. But skip that, she married a guy who is half her age. He is 45 the age of my husband, her son, and she is 79!
Is that good to do? can you see if there is anything wrong in that? She is flabby skin and droppy heavy circled puyffy under the eyes, she's almost 80! ITS NOT THE SAME. Not at that age, in my eyes, any guy after a woman who is 80 with flabby skin, wrinkles galore, and loads of money is a guy who is only going after the money not the person.
WHO WOULD MARRY AN 80YR OLD WHEN THEY ARE IN THEIR EARLY 40"S????
nOW back to your situation. I certainly believe that you still have a very good chance wiht being interested on a 52yr old woman who looks 40. You are almost 30. Ok if you were 15 and wanted to go out with a 40yr old I'd say its worng, but you are an adult now and so is she and she's not that old, not by many other standards. So why not? Just please do not get to the 80's women pleeeeease. That would be a cry for God to intervene, I'd say.
GO OUT WITH THE 52YR OLD LOOKING LIKE 40!
I am 43 and I look like Im in my early 30's, if that in real life (I look very young always have looked at least one and half decades younger than my age). And I feel like Im 90! so one never knows.
Just get to know her and see ifyou like what s inside her, not what she looks like on the outside.
GOOD LUCK! wHAT made you look at her anyway?
2006-07-14 20:32:55
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answered by noteparece? 4
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I'm going to say maybe. But all he definately would want is sex. So if your comfortable with that and that's all you want also. Then it could probably happen. Does he act interested? Try to get a feel for what he's thinking. Good Luck!!! But don't let yourself get hurt because if you want more I really don't believe he could, sorry!!! But I'm sure there's lot's of guys in their 40's that would go for you since you look 40. And that wouldn't be to much of a stretch. Consider that, there are a lot of good looking 40 somethings out there and even 50 somethings. So don't despair, on this guy!!!!
2006-07-14 20:27:05
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answered by Maryanne 1
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Absolutely! In fact, many younger guys are attracted to older women. There is less pressure, she has her life together, has been through relationships and had many experiences. I think it is very attractive to be with someone that can take responsibility for her half of the relationship, as well as take you on a journey that will probably shape you into a more well rounded person. It also doesn't hurt that she is in a powerful phase of her sexuality, and you are still in the neighborhood of your sexual peak.
There will be some differences, but you would find that with someone your own age. If you are attracted mentally, as well as physically, I say, go for it! Just look at Demi and Ashton!
2006-07-14 20:38:05
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answered by Laura M 1
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I believe a 29 year old man can be interested in a 52 year old woman. I also believe a 29 year old woman could beinterested in a 52 year old man. Here is my point: I believe love happens. But the love has be between both people here. It can't be infatuation (a foolish love). This has to be real love. A woman likes to know that you like her. She may like you if she knows you are interested in her, and in return you like her back. Now here is the key I think, "You have to make God a part of this relationship." Be open and honest with her as well. Let her know you trust her and she will trust you. She may think you are to young for her, But you have to let her know in your way that you are the one for her. Love is priceless. Age is knowing that a person has either made mistakes and are learning from them or blindly going and never accepting those mistakes to learn from them. The woman you are interested in, could be the one. You have to ask yourself is this the woman of my dreams who will make me truly happy? Older women also do not want you to resent them later on when there was a chance for a younger, and a family. An older woman may not be able to give you everything you want. But I believe they sure know how to give and receive love.
An older woman wants to know she is liked and loved back and not being resented. That you are truly happy being with her and she is the one and the only one. Women aren't perfect and neither are men. So with that she will want you to be happy.
If she feels that you would be happier with someone else she will let you know. If she feels to her that she is the one you are truly longing for, I believe she will let show those signs of feelings towards you. Even if she feels like you would be happier with someone else, be her friend, someone she can trust and she may even hope she is the one you are interested in. Older women can be a mystery, but I say hang in there. I believe an older woman would very much like to be with someone and not be alone, but with the right someone. Maybe that someone who she would be looking for is you.
Love is a mysterious and wonderful emotion between 2 people. Whether she looks 40 or 52 she I'm sure does worry about the way she looks to any man.
She wants to know she is loved for her being her and not having someone whose constantly looking and worrying she doesn't look good enough for her man. She will want to know she is the one you are looking at, accepting her for her, and knowing you will always be there for her. She will no doubt be there for you. Just have fun being around her, sharing things with her, expressing yourself. Serious times are there too. Oh yeah, definitely be a friend to her and be a friend for her. And definitely speak-up. You never know relationships of the opposite sex has a way of working out . I don't count age, because we all eventually grow old. **Your heart is what she she will be looking at and taking notice of.** I think the heart of a man to a woman is important. I believe that speaks volumes to the woman no matter what her age is.
2006-07-14 21:00:25
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answered by Kendall H 1
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Why not? I say go for it! Life is too short to worry about age. I'm 52. My husband is 77 and we've been married over 20 years.
2006-07-14 21:17:22
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answered by celticwoman777 6
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I've seen it occur many times. To me it's cradle robbing. Who am I to talk my girlfriend is 12 years younger than I.Where there's smoke there's fire. The guy may need a mother figure type who know's. She may just want to feel young. Either way love has no bounds.
2006-07-14 20:38:26
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answered by LARRY P 3
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It might work if you can handle her aging. Right now she is still young in a way but once she gets into her hi 60 she is going to start to slow down.
2006-07-14 20:25:22
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answered by dog lover 2
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She'll be like a car w. 100000 miles on the clock, uneconomic to repair sooner than you think. On the bright side you'll never get carded again.
2006-07-14 20:26:05
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answered by Anonymous
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depends on type of interest. i've seen alot of women, 40s and up, over the years that were hot. i guess my answer is yes if sex is the main.
2006-07-14 20:26:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Personally, i would try to date someone around my age, but as to your question i mean anythings possible when it comes to love, but I'm with acerboy278 when you think about it it's creepy and it makes me crinch.
2006-07-14 20:29:37
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answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3
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