im putting all the effort in my relahionship is this the time were i say goodbye and hello to single life?

Question

please tell me?

Answer 1

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are you married? have any children?? im assuming you are not and have none. even if you could fix the problem today , do you beleive the problem will be fixed forever? more then likely not and marriage although has its rush in the begining will always settles down. do you really believe your other half can really change? is this what you want for your marriage?? 95% of dating and the whole boyfriend and girlfriend thing is a prep class for marriage, or should be veiwed as that. is this person what you would say is the perfect role model for the future of your children ? if you cant honestly say yes then you really need to move on and start the process over just dont waist so much time on somone who has a redflag. becuase redflags are magnified 100 times after you are married.
a carpenter saying " measure twice cut once" relating to your situation check a man over more then once so your heart doesnt have to get hurt. pick perfect and youll enjoy only one marriage

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Answer 2

Sure if you think its one sided ,its not... Marriage isn't a fifty-fifty proposition its 110%-110% proposition..the real work starts after the honeymoon phase. That's why ya always gotta keep it real and not try to "trick" someone into marrying you. So why shouldn't a relationship be more then one sided? Go ahead and tell him (or her) you are leaving cause you feel you are the only one working. Guys do not like to work so it will be a relief to him that you want to leave rather then ask him to put forth effort..you'll be doing him a favor!

Answer 3

Love is a two way street. If he's not exerting much effort, and you're putting in one hundred percent, then this appears like a clear signal that he's not the one.. there are plenty of good guys out there who would be more than happy to apply effort. Don't worry; you'll find him.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

If you are unhappy with the relationship and you don't think you can resolve the issues, it's time to go! I always say I would rather be alone and happy than stay in a relationship and be miserable. Life is too short to be unhappy!

Answer 6

Hey Kelly Girl its ironic but one of my good friends has that name, and the men in her life treat her good for a while, then things start going bad. Remember men will be men and women will be women.

Answer 7

yes girl if you are putting in all the effort to keep it together well you might as well be alone go single

Answer 8

Yes, take it from me, I have done that for almost 20 years! A healthy relationship should have both people investing their time and energy into it.

Answer 9

Didn't we learn anything from John Lennon..All You Need Is Love.

Answer 10

If he's being a jerk to you, ignoring you and not trying at all, I would consider leaving him. It will only get worse. Good luck.