Well, I'm 17, but for some reason I like guys that are MUCH older. Like 30. I'm just way more attracted to them than guys my age. I donno what to do! It's not like I couldn't get guys my age, I just don't want them!!
What should I do? I can't stop, it's how I am! :/ Should I just wait until I'm 18 and just go out with 30 yr olds?
2006-07-14 12:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by Debi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what it is, that guys your age act like little kids they have minds of a little kid still and your into the older men cuz of it. dont worry about. but yes i think you should wait til your at less 18 that would be the smart way staying out of trouble. but good luck to you.
2006-07-14 12:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not weird at all for liking older men. There is nothing wrong with dating someone that much older--at least, AFTER your 18. It would just really suck to find a great guy and then get it all messed up because you arent 18 yet.
I would hold off on dating anyone over 18, then once you are--good luck on finding a man!
2006-07-14 19:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~ Amanda ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have a father figure in your life? If not this may be why. Right now you are still under age so watch out. It's really not about age but maturity. There are good, mature guys your age out there it depends were you are looking for them. I am sure you will find one as soon as you go to COLLEGE! In the mean time work on those issues girls and go see a psych.
2006-07-14 19:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by lanena423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was the same way when I was you age and I am telling you from experience that you should enjoy the guys your-age life passes fast and when you are thirty those same guys that are seeking you out will dump you forr younger girls,it also may be some kinda freak way we look fo the Father figure in the men we choose stay young as long as you can
2006-07-14 19:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For relationship theres no age but be carefull if u go out with 1(my cousin is 18 and shes going out with a 30 yr.guy)
2006-07-14 19:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by * Fantasy * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing weird about it. I've always been attracted to older men myself, since I was 13. (I'm 20 now)However, you probably want to wait until you're 18 just to be safe.
2006-07-14 19:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years old is not that bad...now if you were interested in like 70 year old men, I'd worry!! You'll most likely find a better man whos 30 than one your age anyway!
2006-07-14 19:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by maddirae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till ur 18 and go with any 1 u want. its not weird. u just like older men.
2006-07-14 19:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its an issue of maturity or establishment... i would just wait until you get to college to find some mature 25y/o man that might hold some of the qualities that you are interested in in a 30yo
2006-07-14 19:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by paL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's your relationship with your dad? Do you have $? Do you want/need it? Men in their 30's usually(hopefully) have more $ and are certainly more willing to share it with a nubile teenager than another teenager. Remember you can destroy a persons life by involving them in underage sex, stay in your own playground, please.
2006-07-14 19:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by asil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋