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When I get mad: I take my anger out on other people, cuss, fuss, through fits and tempertantrums. I really get mad and angry! I cuss people out and talk badly about people. I think bad thoughts about people who make me mad. I often go off the deep end and get paranoid. I might end up in a straight jacket. But I do believe in god, want to change my life around and go to heaven when I die. I feel like I am a really bad person and desserve everything bad coming to me. Do I desserve this? Do I desserve to burn for eternity? Is there something wrong with me?! I think that I am crazy and need to be hospitalized.

2006-07-14 12:47:26 · 24 answers · asked by delawaregirl83 3 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

24 answers

Just pray sweetie. I will pray for you too. If we do not repent of our sins and seek God for guidance, we will not be allowed into the kingdom of Heaven. You can be delivered if you seek God honestly and sincerely for it. You don't want to be crazy so don't say it. There is power in the words we say. Avoid using idle works ... just speak positive things into your life so that you will be blessed and set free from your battle with your "anger problem".
You will be just fine. May God bless you in the name of Jesus.

2006-07-14 12:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0 0

That's a tought question to field.

Christianity says you'll go to Hell, if for nothing less than thinking evil thoughts.

I wouldn't concern myself with Hell right now. The real problem seems to be that you're angry and lashing out. You shouldn't try to cure this because you might go to Hell. You should try to cure yourself because you feel bad about it and it's destructive to you.

It sounds like you're getting caught up in your own emotions. The next time it happens, take a deep breath and ask yourself if what you're angry about is truly worth it. Will you be angry tomorrow? How about next week? Chances are, it's not really that bad.

Hell shouldn't scare you into being a better person, you should do it because you feel compelled to be better.

2006-07-14 19:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by D.L. 1 · 0 0

babe you sound very confused and perhaps in need of some help .. you aren't evil or bad but you do sound like you have some emotional problems that can be helped with medical assistance and perhaps some counselling
if you want to turn your life around then you can .. nothing is stopping you but the first step i would think has to be asking for help .. because it is so hard to do things alone and there is help out there
I'm not even gonna go into the hell aspect of this because that's something you can think about with a more logical head once you have gotten the help you need
what you do deserve is a happy life , everyone is entitled to that and you can get that in time with help and patience
i wish you well on your first step to a new life xxx
love to you xx

2006-07-14 20:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 7 · 0 0

Well, the good news is that you won't go to hell, because it doesn't not exist. God, who is pure, unconditional love would not condemn us to burn for eternity, we will all return to God when we leave this physical incarnation.

However, your behaviour DOES affect your day to day existence.

God has given us the gift of free will, which is the ability to create our own reality.

Through the universal law of attraction, the vibrations (via our conscious or unconscious beliefs, thoughts, emotions, words, actions) that we put into the world, and whether they are positive or negative, love-based or fear-based, lead to the events that we experience in return, in one form or another. These vibrations occur singly, by individuals and collectively, by societies and cultures.

When you find yourself being negative you CAN turn it around. You can reach for a better feeling thought and change your own experiences.

2006-07-14 19:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0 0

No, the fact that you feel bad about your actions and want to change your ways is really good. God knows that you are trying and that you may have an anger problem as well. You could talk to your doctor about your anger and he or she will be able to help you. Also, pray about this and ask for God to help make you better. He is listening to you and loves you so much. He wants to see you get better. You are going to be just fine. :)

2006-07-14 20:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Annabanana 4 · 0 0

Do not get angry.
Pro14:17 He that is quick to anger will commit foolishness, but the man of thinking abilities is hated.
Pro14:29 He that is slow to anger is abundant in discernment, but one that is impatient is exalting foolishness.
Pro15:15 An answer, when mild, turns away rage, but a word causing pain makes anger to come up.
Pro15:18 An enraged man stirs up contention, but one that is slow to anger quiets down quarreling.
Pro16:32 He that is slow to anger is better than a mighty man, and he that is controlling his spirit than the one capturing a city.
Just slow, down.

2006-07-14 19:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 47 7 · 0 0

You are not bad and you are not going to hell. There is no hell. You have guilt and low self esteem. You get mad because you feel threatened. You need to talk to a counsellor. Relax. You are a good person. You just have some pain in your life that you need to overcome. What are you paranoid about? I suggest you speak to a counsellor. And relax, there is no hell.

2006-07-15 06:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0 0

I don't think your crazy nor do I think you need DRUGS. Drugs just cover up the real problem. You obviously have anger problems. Try talking to a therapist who can get to the root of the problem. I personally don't believe in hell. If there was one I don't think you would go there. You sound sincerely remorseful and aware of your actions.

2006-07-14 19:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by loreerocks 2 · 0 0

Do you believe that endless punishment would manifest the glory of God? Do you hope that endless misery is true?
Is "faith the substance (or foundation) of things hoped for?" -- (Heb. 11:1)
If endless misery be not a thing hoped for, can it be a part of the Christian faith?Would endless misery benefit the Almighty, as the INFLICTOR?
Would endless misery benefit the saints, as SPECTATORS?
Would endless misery benefit the sinner, as the SUFFERER?
If endless punishment be the "wages of sin," could the sinner ever receive payment in full? (Rom. 6:23)
If man cannot commit an infinite sin, can he deserve endless punishment?
If sin be infinite, can it be true that, "where sin abounded grace did MUCH MORE abound ?" --(Rom. 5:20)

2006-07-14 20:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0 0

Well, if you honestly want to change then you can, but you need Christ to do it. The only way into heaven is through Christ. John 14:6 says: "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" and if you want to enter the kingdom of heaven then you have to fully give your life over to Christ. but you have to repent and mean it from your heart. Jesus says in Matthew 4:17 "...Repent, for the Kingdom of heaven is near" You cant do it alone, but with Christ you can
God Bless YOu

2006-07-14 20:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by **sTaRz** 1 · 0 0

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